Build and Battle

Build and Battle

Working- people and achievers are getting problems. People who don’t work and don’t achieve something great, they don’t get any problems. Reason; disturbing people know that they are not harmful to them. they target and fight with working or smart or talented people, because they are the problem to them.

If you are in corporate and not a good contributor, you have no worries, no one disturbs you. People pluck and attack only low hanging fruit.

Walking people stumbles, Contestants get opponents, Non-walking never stumble and non-contestants or normal voters never get opponents.

This is an era of computation, struggle, and fight. Anonymous selection and honest recognition is not an easy job.

A.P.J Abdul Kalam get Satish Dhawan type of people, you will not possible to get Satish Dhawan kind of people as your superior, to identified you as smart and talented.

[SV] This world is great gymnasium where we come to make ourselves strong. [SV]

Just imagine Lion become peaceful and started begging deer. Deer Deer please cooperate I want to eat you. Deer will kick the Lion's ass. Lion must keep its original quality to survive. Many times, many people try lot to destruct you and make you feel as sheep, never get into those traps. You are Born Lions! Don't forget your original nature. Don't allow someone to rule your mind, take control of your mind. Win your mind to win the world.

Be truthful, be honest, let the planets change its positions, today or tomorrow, truth must win. Never step back, never quit, if you are facing danger? welcome like Akka Mahadevi [Kannada Poet], if something comes tomorrow, let it come today, if something coming today, let it come right NOW!

Don't listen anyone, everyone tells something by considering their wishes [hidden agenda] and dreams in their mind. Listen to your heart and go with your gut feeling. That is the only feeling connected with your heart. Don't even listed to your own mind, mind miss guides you, reason it always goes with the logics and fear. Gut feeling has no logics and no fear, it has direct connection with divine.

[SV] Let people say whatever they like, stick to your own convictions, and rest assured, the world will be at your feet. They say, 'have faith in this fellow or that fellow', that's the way. Have faith in yourself - all power is in you - be conscious and bring it out. Say, 'I can do everything'. 'Even the poison of snake is powerless, if you can firmly deny it.' [SV]

You want to be more courageous? Be more spiritual. Spirituality bring courage to your life.

[O]

You cannot be truthful if you are not courageous

You cannot be loving if you are not courageous

You cannot be trusting if you are not courageous

You cannot be inquiring into reality if you are not courageous,

Hence courage comes first and everything else follows.

People full of fear make others afraid so they can rest at ease. They know well that now you will not touch them, you will not trespass their boundaries. [O]

Let me give my definition of religious and spiritual:

1. Spiritual means being truthful and loving all with no discriminations. [Universal LOVE]

2. Religious means being biased way of truthful and discriminating other religions. [Restricted LOVE]

Do not die with dreams, make sure before you are dying, you are seeing the reality of your dreams.

Don't consider failures, more failures mean you are more stronger, more matured, more closer to the success. Don't give up, you never know how close you are to the success.

When you fly high, people will throw stones at you. Don't look down. Just fly higher so the stones won't reach you.

People back talk about you means, you are 2 steps ahead of them, feel happy for that.

People trouble you a lot means, you are 10 steps ahead of them, feel great for that.

[TDJ]As a leader you need to develop the weaponry of Nehemiah, Nehemiah is a great illustration of great leadership. Because Nehemiah building back the walls of Jerusalem, which is helping the people of Jerusalem. While he is being fight on every side and he begins to build the wall with a Trowel in one hand, Sword in other hand ---- to build a wall and fight the destructs.

Building with one hand and fighting with other hand, you can’t stop building just because you are involved in fighting, you can’t stop fighting just because you are involved in building. That’s why God gave you two hands, build with one and fight with the other. Don’t forget you got two hands. You can’t stop building, you can’t stop battling…. battle and build. Build and Battle.

In fact the more you build, the more you battle, you can’t build anything that wouldn’t bring a battle. And you are going thru a battle right now, that’s only because you are building something. Because people don’t fight with people who don’t build, they only fight you because you are building.

If you wouldn’t be building anything, nobody will battle, more you start building, more you got battle, think it’s not strange, this is a part of your job. If you take the lead, you will become a target, have courage. [TDJ]

[SV] This world is not for cowards. Do not try to fly. Look not for success or failure. Join yourself to the perfectly unselfish will and work on. Know that the mind which is born to succeed joins itself to a determined will and perseveres.... Live in the midst of the battle of life. Anyone can keep calm in a cave or when asleep. Stand in the whirl and madness of action and reach the center. If you have found the center, you can't be moved. [SV]

History has been proven, people who think advance are condemned, criticized, later accepted.

[SV] Each work has to pass through these stages - ridicule, opposition, and then acceptance. Each man who thinks ahead of his time is sure to be misunderstood. So, opposition and persecution are welcome, only I have to be steady and pure and must have immense faith in God, and all these will vanish. [SV]

Go deeper, life is like an ocean, top layer filled with plastic waste and garbage, little deep you find fishes, deeper you go, you will find; pearl, gems, so on.

[SV]Be free hope for nothing from any one. I'm sure if look back upon your lives, you will find that you were always vainly trying to get help from others, which never come. All the help that has come was from within yourselves. [SV]

[SV]Never say, 'No'; never say 'I cannot', for you are infinite. Even time and space are nothing compared with your nature. You can do anything and everything, you are Almighty. [SV]

[SV]Get up and put your shoulders to the wheel - how long is this life for? As you have come in to this world, leave some mark behind. Otherwise, where is the difference between you and the trees and stones? [SV]

Source/References used: [Courtesy’s]

TD Jakes’s: YouTube Speech: Leadership(must watch !!!) - TD Jakes – Complete 

Osho’s: Book – Courage

Swami Vivekananda’s: Book – VIVEKANANDA His Call to the Nation

Note: 

1. Most of my blog is filled with Sayings of Swami Vivekananda, TD Jakes, and Osho, reason of this blog is just to motivate working or corporate folks, those who undergo some similar situations.

2. Within frame of [SV] I placed saying of Swami Vivekananda, Within frame of [O] I placed saying of Osho, Within frame of [TDJ] I placed saying of T J Jakes 

Author: GCV (Vishnuvardhana GC)

• Kannada Blogger

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Does your corporate have Open Doors or Closed Doors?!

Does your corporate have Open Doors or Closed Doors?!

Does your corporate have Open Doors or Closed Doors?!

Today's corporate has culture of open doors. This is the Hight of democracy, so that it allows anyone can speak with anyone.

If any corporate restricts or does not entertain this open doors or open communication culture, within few years, it will evaporate.

Opposite to open doors is nothing but closed doors, this closed-door help corrupt, political, unethical people to ruin the organization.

Just close your eyes for a minute, see how dark it is! Just imagine, if corporate close doors to the employee to express their feedback for one year, what level of darkness it will be getting in!?

That is the reason corporate office have employee survey, open doors, many more.

Let me tell what is this open doors?

World top organizations conduct this open doors day in quarterly or biquarterly basis. In this day, top management (MD,VP, COO, CTO, CEO) available in the office, any employee can directly meet and talk to them, this is a forum to express Plus and Minus of organization. This is a great help to the organization, to listen employee concern and act on them.

If any organization have some corrupt or unethical people in 2 or 3 levels, it's highly difficult to the leaf level employee to complain organization failures or issues. Since 2 or 3 levels have not good people, it will never reach the top leadership. So obviously that organization, sooner or later, destroy investors’ money and fail.

This open doors is a great concept, it allows anyone can go and express pros and cons of the organization.

Life begins when opens the doors, this is an endless possibilities. The moment you come out of your mother's womb, you are in state of open door.

•       You are curious to know
•      You are interested in every single organism
•      You are interested in every single word you listen.
•      Your growth is tremendous, reason you opened the doors for everything.

Once you grown up, many of your surrounding started telling stories, convincing you to close the doors. The moment you followed them, you stared decaying, the moment you close the door, you are dead.

In one of the phone call I told my friend Dr.Ramesh about my new blog, he suggested 2 points on this open doors, as per his view Open Doors should be opened both the sides.

Here are those views...

1.One side to listen idea, other side to implement that idea.

2.One side to listen problem, other side throwing out the problem causing people/process.

Corporate problems or solution list..

1. There are some teams/person eating corporate money by stretching 3 days’ work to 3 months.
2. There are some teams/person hiring their relatives, friends, castes, so on, ruin corporate progress.
3. There are some teams/person destroying great talents, pulling down the growing people, allowing dumb to grow.
4. There are some teams/person eating corporate money, by using all its loop holes.
5. There are some teams/person making money by misusing office authority or operation, so on.
6. There are some teams/person ignoring great innovation or ideas of the employees.

Who will report this? Whom to report this? Only possibility is open doors/anonymous survey.

Some of the corrupt manager or leaders prevent you to inform your achievements to the next level, they tell there is a process to maintain corporate structure. Of course, that is right? not for all the cases! If something extraordinary achieved, what is wrong in informing little higher levels. If it is not informed, there are possibilities, corrupt manger or lead or employee show individuals work as its own. And take all the credit to himself.

Open doors is a forum for the achievers. This is a day; they can directly meet the top leaders and explain how much value they have created to the organization, what benefits or growth they missed because of internal politics, corruption, so on.

There are many hundreds of Sundar Pichai, Mark Zuckerberg type of great minds, are killed, pulled, destroyed, demolished, by closed minded and closed doors people, many corporate restricts employees to approach higher management, this is the reason we are unable to produce many Sundar Pichai, Mark Zuckerberg kind of people.

Open doors is not a new concept, it born the day, the democracy born.

•        Common man can reach President or Prime Minister.
•       Student can reach Principal.
•       Person can reach or ask the God.

There are some corrupt Sage/Priests restricted to reach the God also. That's why Buddha come to show and tell God is inside you. Later Adi Shankaracharya come to tell, as you are the Shiva/God.( Shivoham = I’m GOD).

In corporate, some are avoiding or introduce closed doors, you know why? they are not good, and they don't want other good to grow.

If any corporate or person prevent employee to reach top leaders, they are non-democrats, you can also call them as dictators. They are close to Adolf Hitler. Or it's like Father or Mother telling a child, you can reach up to my level, don't talk to Grandma or Grandpa or Grand Grand so on.

Anyone can reach anyone, doesn't mean that you send your daily status report to President. Send something that requires national heads attention. Don’t send all junk you do or have.

Open doors is equal to LIGHT. Closed doors is equal to DARK.

Love means open doors, because love is acceptance. Hate means closed doors, because hate is rejection.

WHITE IS EQUAL TO OPEN, BLACK IS EQUAL TO CLOSE, Knowingly or unknowingly, Thief, Terrors, Killers use Black Color and Sages, Priests, Mullah’s use white color. Similarly, for peace White color is used, for Protest Black color is used.

Corporate/Software industries please open your eyes and introduce open doors/anonymous surveys. If not soon or later you will vanish.

Author: GCV (Vishnuvardhana GC)

• Kannada Blogger

Kereya neeranu Kerege chelli

Author Disclaimer:

I’m not a robot to be constant, consistent and complete, I’m a normal human and my blog will be contradictory like director give multiple movies have different opinions on the same subject or different subjects. I flow like a river, I really don’t look for sand, rock, trees, house, and so on. Intention is helping as many as possible before reaching the ocean. I strongly recommend to consult expert’s advice to follow and adopt any methods. The intent of the author is only to offer information of a general nature to help you in your quest for emotional and spiritual well-being. 

Children are dying Parents are Vying

Children are dying Parents are Vying

Sorry to all the mothers and fathers of our generation, if you agree or disagree, truth is: we are not producing quality human beings.

Maids or nanny are not your relatives, not your family, why they need to take care of your kids, you may give me the reason as I'm paying them. Paying good or more money wouldn't help. Believe me your pay hurts them furthermore, it promotes not to take care of your kids.

You may pay ₹10k or ₹15k or ₹30k. Your nanny or maids think that this is nothing and you are earning in lakhs, and you pay peanuts to them. Many other factors influence them not to take care of your kids, many maids or nanny are poor or need of money, in front of them your show off’s like you tell your spending on shopping, movies, mobile, hospital, school, so on, that Hurts furthermore.

They don't take care your kids, do whatever you want, give whatever you give, just think for a minute? you are the mother or father, don't have care for them, why your maid or nanny should be more caring than you.

Why are you earning money, many parents answer is for their kids, if your kids are self-sufficient enough to live their life, there is no need of your money.

I remember one of the Telugu movie (Janata Garage) dialogue: If your kids are qualified and grown they don't need your money, if your kids are unqualified and grown they may destroy your life time earnings in 2 days.

Let me remember one of the quote said by Swamiji (Tumkur, Karnataka): Don't make properties for the kids, make your kids as a property.

You know why world producing harmful people, that is because lack of good parenting. That is the reason we see so many terrorist, thieves, rapists, murderers, so on.

What are the causes of bad parenting?

Answer: Too much love and Too much negligence

What is too much love?

Today’s parenting? I personally see, they are very much lavish in spending for kids. If a baby cries they give Cadburys chocolate to the mouth, I really confused is Cadburys helping or destroying children?!

Parents are spending 1000’s for kid’s toys and other things, (they don’t know that finally they play with old bottle caps and broken sticks) anything they ask, parents provide and they give name as we suffered in childhood and we don’t want our kinds to suffer like us. This is utter nonsense idea, I think; since you suffered you know the value of money and now you can do the job and earn money.

As Shiv Khera said in You Can WIN book: Generally, children brought up with excessive freedom and a lack of discipline grow up not respecting themselves, their parents or society, and have a hard time accepting responsibility.

Example: In China, because of single child rule, parents started showing so much love and started satisfying every single need of their children. What happened when they reached teenage, they started asking bigger things, which parent can’t make it easily. This results teenager’s suicides, you know why? From the childhood, they experience only success and satisfaction, they are not trained to handle failure or lacking, they go depression and dying. Who is the culprit? Its parenting, again what they are doing you know? Mother and father working day and night to keep their children alive.

In India, there is no such rule(of single child), passion of single child is started, (I know the population issue, having 2 or 3 child’s is good instead of producing nonsense one child, in terms of quality) let me give few adverse effects of single child, now a days we don’t have community or joint families, this single child grows alone, plays alone, sleep alone, sing alone, dance alone, so on.

What happens in double or tipple child home, they fight for toys, they fight for food, they fight for cloths, they joy, they play together, they sing together, they dance together, they eat together, they celebrate together, they share their suffering, they learn sympathy or empathy, so on. With this they learn sharing and caring and living and adjusting with others.

Whereas single child never experienced sharing, caring, fighting, suffering, celebrating, so on as multi child growing environment, obviously this grows as incompatible to the society and communities. If you have any surveys you will possibly see more: depression, psychopath, suicide, divorce cases in single child.

Father or Mother don’t say that, I give time to them, that will be never be equal to child community growing, reason; generation gap. They can’t enjoy company with you when compared with other children.

Again, if single child growing with community or joint family, that will be away from in getting: depression, psychopath, suicide, divorce, kind of situations.

Note: In India many single child parents are suffering in later stages of life. Don’t worry world is so big, many less populated countries are there in the world, they will give space to your kids too, you also know that, many in younger generation are  now a days migrating to different countries. Child grown with siblings are more strong and capable to live independently. Don’t give population reason for your laziness or fear. India is bigger than your imagination, don't estimate any country by seeing metro cities crowd, in that case New York in America and Tokyo in Japan also over crowded. 

What is too much negligence?

This is nothing but you are not caring your child OR spending more time to your kid. Earning father and mother (both) may not be a good idea, either father or mother one should give up their job,(if you don’t have community or joint family) reason; child is also like product, as Sadguru Jaggi Vasudev said; child is 20 years product, you need to take care for 20 year. If not you will be producing wrong or faulty product to the society. In material products if product is faulty you will throw-out. Whereas your child it’s not possible, you need to bear with all faults or error or mistakes and you need to suffer for your mistake in later stages of your life.

You don’t want your child to be produced as faulty product, please give up your job. Let me repeat Swamiji’s quote: Don't make properties for the kids, make your kids as a property.

If some of you might missed to watch how maids or nanny or day care treat kinds, please watch: (Source from YouTube, note this nonsense not limited to India, you can find many other countries for the same)

1. Care taker harassed a 11 months old child in pune: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qy9g1Z98W3s

2. Ten Months Baby Beaten By Caretaker In Baby Care Centre In Navi Mumbai | Mango News: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8EqInO67qCE

Again: don’t say I fit CC TV/Hidden cam at home, maids also know how to take away from camera and punish your child.

Sometimes I feel road side sales people and construction workers are better parents than the Class A employees, reason; they allow them to grow in freedom and with the nature. Instead of locking them in room or cage or daycare.

Remember: If child subconsciously affected and threatened by maids or nanny’s, this will be life time suffering and like Mental retardation, maid/nanny can influence fear in your child and make them handicaps. Then your earning will nothing to do with your child. Come out of money, Money is not everything, spend some time with your children’s, give them what makes them best (not everything they asked for), avoid what makes them bad.

Don’t use TV/Laptop/Mobile to control your children:

Now a day’s parents innovated new techniques to keep children quiet, they just give TV/Laptop/Mobile to avoid them.

1. TV/Computer: Your children experience sun, moon, rain, dirt, trees, sand, so on virtually, never experience playing under the real sun, moon, rain, so on. Lack of physical activities and social networking make them weak physically and mentally.
2. Mobile: Impacts on brain and nerves, creates so many other problems. As study says; Children use more mobile phone are more emotionally break down and suffer for small or smaller things. It makes emotionally uncontrollable.

Teach moral values to your kids, make the world as a more colorful, wonderful, peaceful, joyful and healthy place for every single being on earth.

Let me thank my friend and colleague Ramasubramanian.T and Mark.B CEO of OpenText, they indirectly or directly influenced me to write this blog, as I sensed their care and interest in building better society to the world.

Parents: Stop producing psychopaths, Start producing quality human beings.

Author: GCV (Vishnuvardhana GC)

• Kannada Blogger

Kereya neeranu Kerege chelli

Author Disclaimer:

I’m not a robot to be constant, consistent and complete, I’m a normal human and my blog will be contradictory like director give multiple movies have different opinions on the same subject or different subjects. I flow like a river, I really don’t look for sand, rock, trees, house, and so on. Intention is helping as many as possible before reaching the ocean. I strongly recommend to consult expert’s advice to follow and adopt any methods. The intent of the author is only to offer information of a general nature to help you in your quest for emotional and spiritual well-being. 

Information Intelligence Indigestion (III) A/U

Information Intelligence Indigestion (III) A/U

Human are becoming more and more informative and intelligent with this intelligence, people are inviting more and more problem, you know why? Please read till the end, to make your life less freaky, less geeky, less miserable and make a life more happy, more friendly, more likable, more cool and calm.

Take an example:

If you eat more than required amount, what will happen to you?

Answer: Indigestion.

If you increase capacity of information and intelligence more than your capacity to handle, what will happen to you?

Answer: you become psychopath or mental patient or freaky.

You believe it or not, that's how it is. there are solutions for every problem.

When you get indigestion by over eating what you do?

You take, gelusil tablet/liquid or digestive tablet or you need to do Yoga or Surya Namaskar.

What to do to handle Information Intelligence Indigestion?

You drink alcohol, take drug, involving in some creative or entrainment activates or do some meditation.

See there are two obvious and healthy ways to deal with it:

1. Yoga cures food indigestion.

2. Meditation cures Information Intelligence Indigestion.

Whereas current generation found some shortcut ways for the same:

1. Gelicel or tablets using to cure for food indigestion.

2. Alcohol or drug using to cure mental indigestion.

Let's see which way is good for you..

What happens when you do computer system a random shutdown?

It corrupt many files, and it's not good for hard disc health, so on.

Similarly, if you use table, drugs, alcohol to cure food or mental indigestion, there are side effects, which will damage your; liver, kidney, heart, intestain, brain cells, so on.

Why proper shutdown is needed to the computer?

To make sure all files closed properly and to make sure hardware gets smooth transition to end and stop system process.

Similarly we need Yoga and Meditation for human beings, it helps to digest or organize the food or mind with no side effects.

Today we see many geeky and freaky people, reason is obvious; People who gain so much information and intelligence, they don't drink alcohol or they don't do meditation, what will happen? it just made them nonsenses and freaks.

Sometimes alcohol drinking people look and behave cool and calm, then non-alcohol or non-meditative freaks.

I'm not saying all should drink alcohol, why don't you try for Meditation and Yoga. For this you say that, you don't have time! So better continue freaking, people will brand you as freaky or geeky or mad.

In early days in one village, one or two used to consume alcohol, they are considered as freaks, by others. Reason; they don't have knowledge and isolated from the knowledgeable people. Now it's reverse, in a village one or two don't drink, they are considered as freaks. Reason; generation to generation, information and intelligence capacity increased, and it created Information Intelligence Indigestion. So, many are finding easy ways (smoking, alcohol, drugs, so on) to deal or handle it, few are finding right way (Meditation, Prayer, so on) to deal or handle. Other few are neither in this way nor in that way, so they are branded as freaks or insane.

Just look at any intelligent fellow with no habits of meditation or alcohol, they are always living with high blood pressure, tension, anxiety, stress, depression, anger, short temper, fighting, so on.

Come out of your ignorance, don'tsay you don't have time, for your own sake, for your own branding purpose, for your own wellbeing, invest 30 or 60 minutes in a day on Meditation, or else you will go mad.

Don't try for easy solutions like smoking or alcohol or drugs, for the moment it may keep you cool, later you need to pay back.

Dear loved one, help your loved ones, by guiding them to do Yoga and Meditation.

Mediation is very simple technique, people feel uncomfortable doing it, because from childhood our education is guiding how to deal with complex things. So, simple things are becoming difficult and impossible to deal with. So, initial days it needs some patients to learn, later you will be master in dealing everything.

People who do smoking or consume alcohol or drugs to deal this Information Intelligence Indigestion, please try mediation, reason; those requires incremental increase in dose, since your body feels no effect for small doses, instead of increasing doses and destroying your health, try Mediation, to get ultimate KICK and satisfaction. Remember, this height of satisfaction is not possible in the day you begin the mediation, just try for 30 days, daily 30 or 60 minutes, later you will be living in bliss or ecstasy.

Look at the Buddha any posture you see, he is cool, calm, and quiet. It seems, that is the only message; he wanted to give to the world. Reason; it’s good, working, and he realized it. Trust me, I too find difficulty to sit with that posture with no moments and unshakable for 30min, just breathing and watching the breathing, now I’m very comfortable in doing it.

 Someone finding difficulty in sitting like that, use any of the below posture; start from 5min, next day 10min, next day 20min, increase like this, till 60min, based on your requirement and satisfaction. Remember, more you do more you are free and confident.

Note: Any posture is OK, make sure your spinal cord straight with no bends, for the effective benefits of Meditation.

Ready made mediation materials:

People interested in reading more on meditation and doing it in effective way, please read the book: Awareness: The Key to Living in Balance by OSHO. Or get it from amazon:https://www.amazon.in/Awareness-Living-Balance-Osho-Insights/dp/0312275633

People looking for guided mediation audios, use below website audios (free), they have created very effective meditation audios for the same.

https://www.mindful.org/meditation/mindfulness-getting-started/

Finally, look at the benefits of doing Meditation in below image..

Surya Namaskar postures, please follow any of the YouTube to practice it..

Author: GCV (Vishnuvardhana GC)

• Kannada Blogger

Kereya neeranu Kerege chelli

Author Disclaimer:

I’m not a robot to be constant, consistent and complete, I’m a normal human and my blog will be contradictory like director give multiple movies have different opinions on the same subject or different subjects. I flow like a river, I really don’t look for sand, rock, trees, house, and so on. Intention is helping as many as possible before reaching the ocean. I strongly recommend to consult expert’s advice to follow and adopt any methods. The intent of the author is only to offer information of a general nature to help you in your quest for emotional and spiritual well-being.