Showing posts with label Life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Life. Show all posts

Monday, 7 April 2025

If you want happiness, joy, bliss, and health in your life?

 

If you want happiness, joy, bliss, and health in your life, do these three things and do not do these three things... 👇👇

Make sure to practice these three every day... 👇

1. Walk barefoot on the soil ground for at least one hour every day. (97% of mental, physical, health problems can be resolved by walking barefoot on the ground. Moreover, walking barefoot helps with digestive issues like Ram arrow)

2. Expose your body to sunlight for at least one hour every day. (Sunlight is beneficial for bone, skin, and cancer problems. Moreover, sunlight at noon is very good; this is scientifically proven.)

3. Meditate or chant the name of your favorite God/deity for at least half an hour every day. (Those who forget God end up in hospitals, while those who remember God live happily.)

Do not do these three things for any reason... 👇

1. Do not take loans. - Loans disrupt the peace and tranquility of your life, create fear and anxiety, and damage your health.

2. Do not gamble. - Gambling is one of the worst and most dangerous addictions. It can destroy your family. Lord Krishna did not help the Pandavas during the gambling game. Even God does not protect those who gamble.

3. Do not indulge in vices (drinking alcohol, tobacco, and other intoxicating substances). Those who become slaves to these will be condemned by everyone and lose their respect. Along with this, health deteriorates, and financial problems arise for the entire family.

Making mistakes is not wrong; not correcting them is wrong. I have also made many mistakes in my life, but I have corrected them and, as a human, I am now serving to the best of my ability (Like a squirrel serving to build the Ram Bridge). Walk on the right path, as it is good for you and for society. I hope everyone receives the grace of Lord Sri Rama.

                                                                                                                     🙏 Thank you. 🙏   

                                                                                                                        💐 G C V 💐

Saturday, 22 August 2020

Stop chasing behind property, name and fame!

 

Stop chasing behind property, name and fame!

In India it is common wisdom that the world is like a waiting room in a railway station; it is not your house. You are not going to remain in the waiting room forever. Nothing in the waiting room belongs to you—the furniture, the paintings on the wall . . .You use them— you see the painting, you sit on the chair, you rest on the bed—but nothing belongs to you. You are just here for a few minutes, or for a few hours at the most, then you will be gone.

Yes, what you have brought in with you, into the waiting room, you will take away with you; that's yours. What have you brought into the world? And the world certainly is a waiting room. The waiting may not be in seconds, minutes, hours, days, it may be in years; but what does it matter whether you wait seven hours or seventy years?

You may forget, in seventy years, that you are just in a waiting room. You may start thinking perhaps you are the owner, perhaps this is the house you have built. You may start putting your nameplate on the waiting room.

There are people—I have seen it, because I was traveling so much: people have written their names in the bathrooms of the waiting room. People have engraved their names on the furniture of the waiting room. It looks stupid, but it is very similar to what people do in the world.

There is a very significant story in ancient Jaina scriptures. In India it is believed that if somebody can become the emperor of the whole world he is called a chakravamn. The word chakra means the "wheel." In ancient India it was a way to avoid unnecessary fighting and violence: a chariot, a golden chariot, very valuable, with beautiful and strong horses, would move from one kingdom to another kingdom. That was the finest way to conquer world. So every king had the desire to become a chakravartin.

The story is that one man became a chakravartin—and it happens only once in thousands of years that a man becomes a chakravartin. Even Alexander the Great was not a world conqueror; there was yet much left unconquered. And he died very young, he was only thirty-three: there was not even time enough to conquer the world. What to say of conquering, the whole world was not even known! Half of the world was unknown, and the half that was known, even that was not conquered. This man, of whom I am going to tell you the story, became the chakravartin.

It is said that when a chakravartin dies—because a chakravartin happens only in thousands of years, he is a rare being—when he dies he is received in heaven with great rejoicing and he is taken to a special place.

In Jaina mythology, in heaven there is a parallel mountain to the Himalayas. The Himalayas are just made of rocks and earth and ice. The parallel to the Himalayas in heaven is called Sumeru. Sumeru means the ultimate mountain: nothing can be higher than that, nothing can be better than that. It is solid gold; instead of rocks there are diamonds and rubies and emeralds.

When a chakravartin dies he is led to Sumeru mountain to engrave his name on it. That is a rare opportunity; that happens only once in thousands of years. Of-course this man was immensely exited that he was going to write his name on Sumeru. That is the ultimate of all the great ones that have been, and will also be the catalog of all the great ones that have been, and will also be the catalog of all the great ones who are going to be. This emperor was becoming party to a lineage of supermen.

The gatekeeper gave him instruments to engrave his name. He wanted to take few of his men who had committed suicide just because their emperor was dying-they could not think of living without him. His wife, his prime minister, his commander in chief: all the great people who were around him had all committed suicide, so they had come with him.

The emperor wanted the gatekeeper to let them all come to see him engrave his name, because what is the joy if you go alone and engrave your name and nobody is there even to see?—because die real joy is that the whole world should see.

The gatekeeper said, "You listen to my advice, because this is my inherited profession. My father was a gatekeeper, his father was a gatekeeper; for centuries we have been gatekeepers to Sumeru mountain. Listen to my advice: Don't take them with you; otherwise you will repent."

The emperor could not understand, but neither could he ignore the advice-because what interest could that man have in preventing him?

The gatekeeper said, "If you still want them to see, first go engrave your name; then come back and take them with you if you want. I have no objection even now if you want to take then, but just in case you decide not to, then there will be no chance to change your mind . . , they will be with you. You go alone."

This was perfectly sane advice. The emperor said, "That's good. I will go alone, engrave my name, come back, and call you all.

The gatekeeper said. "I am perfectly agreeable to that"

The emperor went and he saw the Sameru shining under thousands of suns—because in heaven you cannot be so poor as to have just one sun—thousands of suns, and a golden mountain far bigger than the Himalayas—and the Himalayas are almost two thousand miles long! He could not open his eyes for a moment, it was so glaring there. And then he started looking for a space, the right space, but he was very much puzzled: there was no space; the whole mountain was engraved with names.

He could not believe his eyes. For the first time he became aware what he was. Up to now he was thinking he was a superman who happens once in thousands of years. But time has been from eternity; even thousands of years don't make any difference, so many chakravartins had happened already. There was no space on that biggest mountain in the whole universe where he could write his small name.

He came back, and now he understood that the gatekeeper was right not to take his wife and his commander in chief and his prime minister and other intimate friends. It was good that they had not seen the situation. They could still believe that their emperor was a rare being.

He took the gatekeeper aside and he said. -But there is no space!

The gatekeeper said. "That's what I was telling you. What you have to do is to erase a few names and write down your name. That's what has been done; my whole life I have been seeing this done. my father used to say this has been done. My father’s  father - none of my family have seen Sumeru empty, with any space, ever.

"Whenever a chakravartin has come he had to erase a few names and write his own name. So, this is not the whole history of the chakravartins. Many times, it has been erased, many times it has been engraved. You just do your work, and then if you want to show your friends you can bring them in.

The emperor said, "No, I don't want to show them and I don't want to even write my name. What is the point?—someday somebody will come and erase it.

"My whole life has become utterly meaningless. This was my only hope, that Sumeru, the golden mountain in heaven was going to have my name. For this I have lived, for this I have staked my life; for this I was ready to kill the whole world. And anybody else can erase my name and write his. What is the point of writing it?

I will not write it."

The gatekeeper laughed.

The emperor said, "Why are you laughing?"

The gatekeeper said, "This is strange, because this too I have been hearing from my grandfathers—that chakravartins come, and seeing the whole story, just turn back; they don't write their names. You are not new: anybody having a little intelligence would do the same."

In this whole world what can you gain? What can you take away with you? Your name, your prestige, your respectability? Your money, your power—what? Your scholarship? You cannot take anything. Everything will have to be dropped here. And in that moment you will understand that all that you possessed was not yours; the very idea of possession was wrong. And because of that possession you were corrupted.

To increase that possession -to have more money, to have more power, to conquer more lands—you were doing things that even you cannot say were right. You were lying, you were dishonest. You were having hundreds of faces. You were not true even for a single moment to anybody or to yourself; you could not be. You had to be false, phony, pretending, because these are things that help you to succeed in the world. Authenticity is not going to help you. Honesty is not going to help you. Truthfulness is not going to help you.

Without possessions, success, fame—who are you? You don't know. You are your name, you are your fame, you are your prestige, your power. But other than these, who are you? So, this whole possessiveness becomes your identity. It gives you a false sense of being. That's the ego.

Ego is not something mysterious, it is a very simple phenomenon. You don't know who you are, and to live without knowing who you are is impossible. If I don't know who I am, then what I doing here? Then whatsoever I am doing becomes meaningless. The first and the foremost thing is to know who I am. Perhaps then I can do something that fulfills my nature, makes me contented, brings me home.

But if I don't know who I am, and I go on doing things, how can I manage to reach where my nature was supposed to reach, to lead? I have been running hither and thither, but there is not going to be any point that I can say, "Now I have arrived, this was the place I was searching for. "

World not going to remember anyone’s name, don’t be desperate in engraving your name, someone will erase your name and write their names…!!!

Start living life with simplicity and authenticity. That gives you a great time for you to see the beauty of love, kindness and celebrations of joy in Life.

If you are chasing behind property, name and fame, you will surely miss love, kindness and joy. Just question to yourself, when was the last time you have great peace, celebrations and joy? By chasing behind name and fame, you missed to enjoy the beauty in life.

Source: These above stories are taken from the Book: Courage written by Osho. Please read this book to get more lights on life and courage. Worth reading book!!!

Author: GCV (Vishnuvardhana GC)


Kereya neeranu Kerege chelli

Author Disclaimer:

I’m not a robot to be constant, consistent and complete, I’m a normal human and my blog will be contradictory like director give multiple movies have different opinions on the same subject or different subjects. I flow like a river, I really don’t look for sand, rock, trees, house, and so on. Intention is helping as many as possible before reaching the ocean. I strongly recommend to consult expert’s advice to follow and adopt any methods. The intent of the author is only to offer information of a general nature to help you in your quest for emotional and spiritual well-being.

Tuesday, 16 June 2020

Achievers Secret


Achievers Secret


All are having only 24 hours of time in a day, why some are getting success and others are not?

There is a thin line difference in time investment and looking things. If you understand that, you will be part of the achievers group. Please read this article till the end to know the secret of it.

Since childhood we have known one thing that is; hard work brings success. It's not true, only work will not bring success. There are other factors involved.

To cook one curry! You need vegetables. You can't call vegetables itself as a curry. It requires spices, grains, chilly, coriander, curry leaves, salt, water, fire and so on. Now consider hard work in place of vegetables, salt in place of time management, self-discipline in place of chilly, water in place of communication, curry leaves in place of innovation, and spices in place of fire and so on.

If you cook curry without salt or chilly or any one main ingredient, it may not be 100%. It will satisfy your hunger and may not be delicious or healthy or complete. Similarly doing your work alone wouldn't bring success to you. Curry without curry leaves may not give that fragrance or attraction. To get success in any field, he/she must be an all-rounder.

You may have feelings like; I'm poor in communication or other things, but I'm very good at working. Is that enough to get success? No, you must work on the areas to improve where you are weak at.

Sachin Tendulkar served decades in cricket not because he is a best batsman. He served as a bowler, fielder, captain, and many roles. In fact, he brought victory to Indian cricket team by his best bowling and fielding’s also. You may say I'm not a Sachin Tendulkar, he is lucky. Remember, luck will never come and help you, it comes after your victory.

How will your problems help you?

Let me give my own examples. In my childhood I was a very shy person and used to be afraid to speak with others and strangers. Now I'm giving motivational sessions to the masses. During my studies I was very weak in computer programming language and used to mug up programs. Now I am able to build framework and suggest solutions or algorithms to the software products.
After my studies, I was struggling to get the job in software industry. Now I'm helping 100s of students to get job in IT/Corporate industry. I was suffering from frequent health issues like, ulcers, throat infection, cough and so on, now I am became health coach, helping many and cured chronic illnesses. I started business and failed heavily, now I'm doing business mentor job. I got many personal and professional issues in my life, now I become a life coach.

Why I have mentioned those many things about me, just to let you know, once upon a time; I was poor/weak in many areas. Now I have become a master in those areas. Reason: instead of thinking about my problems, I focused only on solutions and considered every problem as an opportunity and learning experience.

All my weaknesses or problems helped me to grow bigger and wiser. Every problem and disturbance made me put lots of efforts into learning and understanding more in that field. Now, my attitude towards problems is different. I welcome them with red carpet and with full heart, those are the only options for us to enhance our capacity, knowledge, and strength in our life.

How to become a master on one subject?
You have great potential to acquire any new skill or knowledge, this requires your planned efforts. Here is what Swami Vivekananda said about it:  Take up one idea. Make that one idea your life – think of it, dream of it, live on that idea. Let the brain, muscles, nerves, every part of your body, be full of that idea, and just leave every other idea alone. This is a way to success. 
If you are following the above guidelines as suggested; you can be a master on the subject which you want to be.

How to invest time in a meaningful way?


Above is the pictorial representation of the Circle of control and Circle of concerns. Choice is yours, in choosing which circle to ignore. If you invest a few hours every day in watching TV and other things which are in the outer circle, it directly affects your inner circle development.  So, invest most of your time on the inner circle than the outer circle. Circle of concerns are not in your control, if you spend thinking or speaking 3 to 4 hours every day about “Circle of concerns” it simply wastes your time. If you invest the same 3 to 4 hours on “Circle of control” it takes you to the next level in your chosen field.

What is self-ignorance? In my opinion it is ignoring the  inner circle and thinking or investing time on the outer circle. Be conscious of your time investment.

Author: GCV (Vishnuvardhana GC)


Kereya neeranu Kerege chelli

Author Disclaimer:

I’m not a robot to be constant, consistent and complete, I’m a normal human and my blog will be contradictory like director give multiple movies have different opinions on the same subject or different subjects. I flow like a river, I really don’t look for sand, rock, trees, house, and so on. Intention is helping as many as possible before reaching the ocean. I strongly recommend to consult expert’s advice to follow and adopt any methods. The intent of the author is only to offer information of a general nature to help you in your quest for emotional and spiritual well-being.   

Saturday, 16 May 2020

Easy ways to Get Success in corporate!


Easy ways to Get Success in corporate!
Success in corporate! It’s easier than you imagine. Trust me and please read this till the end to get hints and clarity on it.

Every field and sector has lots of competitions. Compared to other sectors, corporate is very easy to get success. In other sectors 90% people are in race, remaining 10% are just out of race. Here in corporate 90% people are out of race, only 10% are in race.

Let me explain how: in cricket 90% of all the players try extra mile, extra innovations, extra effort to get selected or to get success. competition in cricket is very difficult. Whereas in corporate 90% of the people are doing only their given job. Only 10% of people do something beyond their job (doing extra). If you consider this %, only one or two people in your team can give some competition in the race. Remaining are not in the race. In corporate, you don't need to run, just a brisk walk itself makes a difference.

Corporate Success Laws:
1. EGO: Delete your EGO, you are here to help the organisation to make more profit. Don't bring your personal interests. (Example: you are skilled at one paid tool, but using a free tool brings revenue to your organization, just go for it. Nokia is the best example, it stayed with symbian OS or Microsoft by not moving to Android)
2. Dress Code: Follow the office dress code. You may feel casual wear gives you a better look. But organizations don't care about our personal interests and is interested  about its image across the other organisations and clients.
3. Emails: Write every email, as if it gets reviewed by your company CEO, no casual or friendly emails. You never know at what time, which of your emails get referenced to clients or higher management due to the project needs.
4. Hair Style: Yes, it matters. Archimedes and Einstein looks are good for architect or scientists kind, because they pay less or no attention to their looks. But in corporate except scientists, others are expected to be in professional haircut and styles.(Ref: Hair style matters)
5. Time Management: Be on time and punctual, it requires no extra effort, it’s just a time management skill. This will save organisations money. Assume: Team meeting gets delayed by 3 minutes because of  you, as you are running late. 10 of your teammates have to wait, you are wasting 30 minutes of the organization time, time is money in corporate.
6. No Favourites: Have no friends or relationships when you are at work. Because this kills your personal reputation and organisation's discipline. This creates an entry point to gossip and internal politics.
7. Be Transparent: Be totally unbiased when hiring new talents, don't bring: cast, religion, colour, gender, or anything. Organisation trusted you and provided a hiring opportunity. Consider all the quality parameters before recommending anyone.
8. Help all: If your team or other teams approach you for help, just jump in and help them in the most respectful way. It's an opportunity for you to create value to the organisation and you never know when you will need help from them.
9. Respect all: Respect every individual the way you respect and treat the billionaire or wise. It indirectly increases your respect and visibility in the organisation. Never discriminate people by their years of experience, gender, skills and position. Everyone is a very important asset to the organisation.
10. Self-discipline and self-control:  Self-discipline helps to improve your organizing and prioritising skills. Self-control is a great asset; it's based on your emotional intelligence. If you are master in dealing with your emotions, you are good at dealing with others. Humans are emotional creatures, dealing with them is nothing but dealing with their emotions.
11. Be Honest: if you want to build trust with your teams and clients, try being honest. 
12. Learn to accept mistakes: accepting your mistakes requires courage and self-confidence. By accepting mistake, you increase your trust level. It also shows how transparent you are.
13. Learn to say NO:  Never over commit and under deliver, it’s always good to under commit and over deliver. Learn to say NO and have right reasons to justify your NO.
14. Appreciate and Thanks: Today all are busy in getting appreciation, but no one is appreciating others. Find a reason to appreciate someone for something and never forget to say thanks.

My Salary Hike:
Don't ask for a salary hike and promotion, organisation should recognise and give. Why? Let me give my own example.
When I was working in my first organisation, after 2.5 years. My manager called me for a one-on-one meeting. He told me he is going to promote me as lead. I rejected his offer. And said no Sir lead role requires a lot of patience and management skills. By giving my manager (Prabhakar Chigateri, he is my role model) example, I want to be like him to take that role. He did not agreed! He said; No you are already doing a lead role, by observing that only I'm offering this to you. He gave me 3 days’ time to come back and tell my opinion. After 3 days again I denied his offer. He forced me as; how many years you wanted to do what you are doing right now? It's a time for you to move forward and take up the responsibilities and don’t worry I'm with you, accept and move on. I finally agreed.

I don't know how many people do this self-evaluation, before taking roles and responsibilities. I witnessed many are getting a lot of stress and tension to get promotion in their job.

You don't believe, in my career only once I asked for a salary hike in our appraisal meeting. My manager (Prabhakar Chigateri) asked me why are you asking this. I told him, during the weekend meeting with my friends, I got to know; we need to ask and fight for hike in appraisal meeting. (Yes, it was a very transparent answer by me) My manager told me, Vishnu don't get influenced by your friends and others. Be true to yourself. I understood what he meant, till today I never asked for any hikes in any of the appraisal meetings.

Even at the time of recession also, I received a 30% hike in the same organisation. How? As I said, in corporate you don't need to run, just a brisk walk brings you a victory. Because there is no race.
I don't think Sundar Pichai is fighting with his manager to get hike and promotions. Don't demand hikes and promotions, your deliverables and skills should command them.

My Job Promotion:
Only once I suggested myself for promotion with my manager (one of the previous offices) in a very polite way, as I was doing some management role, that was about to get delivered from the 2-level senior designated people than me. To justify my role, I requested that. In a day I got recommended for the promotion and I got promoted as well. But I felt very bad about it. As I said, one should not demand for promotion, their work should command it.

Flowers look beautiful when they bloom on its own. It will look ugly if you forcibly tear and make it blossom. Fruit is tasty when it ripe naturally. If you put chemicals you make them ripe early, it will not be that tasteful and healthy.


Story from Katha Upanishad: Nachiketa (young boy) answers Yama, as Yama offers some money and Wealth to Nachiketa as an exchange to compromise. Nachiketa says to Yama: One is supposed to get, what he is supposed to get in his life. If one earns undeserved money or wealth, it will not stay with him. If one not earned due to injustice or politics or any other reasons? No need to worry, he will surely get them, in one or other way. If you understand Katha Upanishad story, you don't need to worry about your earnings or losses.

It’s very important, one must follow office policies and guidelines:
My office policy guides me to wear collar neck T-shirt. One day I was with round neck T-shirt my HR head pointed that (just kidding way), I was feeling guilt. Never repeated that again. My office suggested to use one email signature, but I like different signature. I just threw out my personal interests and started following the suggested one. You may question, why we need to follow all the offices suggestions or policies? I'm doing my work perfectly; I don't follow other things. This is absolutely against the corporate culture. You never know, your organization is respected and recognised based on their set standard, by denying them you are disrespecting your organization and spoiling organization’s reputation.

How important is it? Assume, one of your most important festival or ritual you have not followed dress code as per culture (ex: your marriage you go with half plants). How the entire community is going to treat you. Same way one should bow down to the office policies or procedures. No corporate ever introduced impossible things in policies.
Again, following all these policies are easy, fact is 90% of them are ignored. Following these itself you make a difference, no extra effort needed. Here you don't need even a brisk walk, just a walk itself makes a difference.

How to treat office work?
Treat your office work, the way you treat your personal work. Assume you need to get passport, they ask your ID proof, photo and so on. If you don't have all those, you go to the places where you get them and act to obtain all required documents. If the photo studio is closed, you go to another one or another one till you get photo. Because it's needed for your passport. Similarly, when office work comes, simply don't throw it into others plate by saying it’s their job and so on. Sometimes it's your duty to follow up and get things delivered.

You may say as, I'm following all the rules and instructions very sincerely but success is to far for me. Remember, following all the examination rules will not get you pass results. You must create value to the organisation. Again, it's not based on how many hours you work, it based on how much value you create from your work.

Again, you may say, I'm 100% disciplined, punctual, hardworking, value creation person. Unfortunately, due to office politics and favouritism, people like me will never get any growth. Here is a solution: Negative thinking and Negative vibrations will push you down. It's a metaphysical fact, [some call as law of attraction] our thoughts are very powerful tools. If you use them to destroy yourself, they will destroy you. Being ambitious and thinking positively will create different frequencies and vibration's in you, they will take you to the success path. Stop complaining and learn to improve your required skills.

If you are blaming or in the company of blaming people, you have no possibility of getting any success or growth. How management supports the people who are throwing negative comments and a lot of disrespect to their own organization. Stop gossiping and keep distance from gossiping people.

By following all the above, still if you are not achieving success in the corporate. Just chill! Real success in life is, one should live a peaceful and joyful life. Examine the life of teachers, doctors, and daily labourer's; most of them are serving only one job and one designation till they get retirement. They are doing wonderful service in their given job. That itself is a success, have no desperation towards success in job, that will lead you to depression and chronic health issues. Being ambitious is not wrong. Make sure you are just celebrating every moment in life.

Author: GCV (Vishnuvardhana GC)


Kereya neeranu Kerege chelli

Author Disclaimer:

I’m not a robot to be constant, consistent and complete, I’m a normal human and my blog will be contradictory like director give multiple movies have different opinions on the same subject or different subjects. I flow like a river, I really don’t look for sand, rock, trees, house, and so on. Intention is helping as many as possible before reaching the ocean. I strongly recommend to consult expert’s advice to follow and adopt any methods. The intent of the author is only to offer information of a general nature to help you in your quest for emotional and spiritual well-being.   

Wednesday, 22 April 2020

Power of Selflessness


Power of Selflessness


In today’s world finding selfless people is very difficult and rare. Reason is obvious - one person is in a competition with the entire world and interested in enjoying all the world's luxuries. Anything comes in TV/Social media, people jump to buy or acquire them. That is the reason no one is able to declare that I’m rich. All are born rich, most of them die as poor. Reason; not because of poverty; Poverty is a state of mind.

I have not seen real rich people. Everyone is struggling under the shortage of something. I witnessed many people around the world, most of them are living life with lots of fear, dissatisfaction, and insecurity. Fact is most of the educated and highly paid people are living in a more insecure way when compared with daily laborers and uneducated people.

If we look at the daily laborers and other street salespeople, they don’t have monthly salary, no health insurance, no good living environments, but I witnessed great confidence, great joy, and great peace in them.

Why are most educated people suffering?
There is a proverb in Kannada, ಹಾಸಿಗೆ ಇದ್ದಷ್ಟು ಕಾಲು ಚಾಚು means; Spread your legs as much as the bed. One should not go and have the commitments more than his capacity. In my observation most of the educated are opted for EMI’s which are at neck level to their salaries. 

Due to expensive lifestyle and financial commitments, most of them are living as poor. I’m working in Information Technology (IT) field, salaries in IT are much higher when compared with any other sectors in India. But I witnessed more poverty and insecurity with IT people then other non-IT people.

After 10 - 20 years of going to America or Europe, people come back to India. I have observed more fear, more insecurity, and less confidence in their life. What for your earnings when there is no satisfaction or peace in life?

Observed that people who are increasing their earnings are becoming poorer than earlier. Why do you need more money to become poorer? If you examine your life 10 years back your earning is very less, but you had great confidence and peace in life, now your earnings are 200% times or 300% more but, you become more insecure, poor and restless.

Please teach your children: greatness in giving, greatness in helping, greatness in service and sacrifice. It helps them to stop running races on carrots like a donkey. In that way their life will be more satisfied, happy and peaceful.

How selfishness or greediness affects your health?
There is a world-famous book: You Can Heal Your Life written by Louise hay. In that she has mentioned most of the chronic health issues are mostly related to mind or thoughts. 

Here are the different health issues you would invite, if you started living restless:

  • HEART ATTACK, Reason: Squeezing all the joy out of life, in favour of money or position.
  • HEART PROBLEMS, Reason:  Lack of joy, dealing with issues from anger, not love.
  • BLOOD PRESSURE, Reason: HIGH (hypertension): Longstanding emotional problems not solved. 
  • COLDS, Reason: Too much going on at once. Mental confusion and disorder.
  • DIABETES, Reason: Longing for what might have been. No sweetness left in life.
  • ULCERS Reason: Fear, a strong belief that you are not good enough. "What is eating away at you?"
If you are looking for a solution to cure the above health issues? Here is a link, follow the affirmations suggested for each health issue to cure: Why You Get Disease.

Power of Renunciation and Sacrifice:
Why did Rama, Buddha and Jesus become great? Not because of property or assets they had, they become great because they just treated the entire empire or world as nothing and lived life with a lot of Love, Abandonment and Sacrifice.

Gandhi became great because he just worked for the nation in a selfless way and never asked for any position or power.

If you examine most of the great people, they become great by Service and Sacrifice, and their one of the great qualities is selflessness. That is the power of Selflessness.

When you are most appreciated?
Just go and check your own social media posts, most views, likes you get for things which are related to helping others or doing something without any selfishness or great hard work that helps many people directly or indirectly.

It's a circle. more you come out of your selfishness; more you reach to the outside world.

If I die today, I leave this earth in the most satisfactory way, because; I served few other people during my journey. I feel worth lived! Here are my small contributions:

  1. Tamil Nadu Floods Rice Donated and worked as CSR. [ClickHere]
  2. Uttarakhand Floods salary donation. [No Reference to Link]
  3. Canada Blood Cancer donation. [ClickHere]
  4. Sri Durga Devi Temple Donation. [ClickHere]
  5. Anjaneya Swami Temple Hundi Donation. [ClickHere]
  6. Statue of liberty donation. [ClickHere]
  7. Go Seva donation. [To promote A2 Milk and Indigenous cows] [ClickHere]
  8. Annapoorneshwari Temple Food Donations. [To feed mass crowds] [ClickHere]
  9. Corona Virus prevention donation. [ClickHere]
  10. Cauvery Call River Side Plantation. [ClickHere]
  11. Given Free Motivational sessions at Orphanage and School/Colleges. [ClickHere]
  12. Books donation to village children. [During most of my travels]. 
 Note: 
  1. Many of my small donations and other things are not recorded, overall, I might have donated INR Rs.10,00,000 to Rs.15,00,000 Rupees to others by this time. Still I consider these are very small contributions from my end like the Squirrel contribution in Ramayana.
  2. When doing some of the donations I had NO money in my pocket, But I used my Credit Cards and later paid back to the Bank.
You might wonder why some of my donations are given to Temples?! Yes, who knows, I may be helping another Steve Jobs to remember my contributions [Indirectly]. Ref Story Link: Steve Jobs says: "I went to Hare Krishna Temple every Sunday"

Donations must be disclosed. As per Gururaj Achar Guruji, by displaying or publishing donations, we promote others to do the same. By noticing your donations, your children and grandchildren will continue to do the same and do the bigger donations. In early days Kings built temples and lakes and they used to mention their names and years of donations, by observing King’s children and grandchildren used to do bigger than their parent’s contributions. This is the right way of promoting selflessness.

Rama said “Janani JanmaBhoomischa swargadapi gariyasi” which means; mother and mother land are greater than heaven. One must take care of mother land by his service and donations. No matter where you are born and which country you belong to, you must love your country and contribute service and donations to your country.

No matter which country you are born, you must donate to your country in its difficult times. Don't say I'm paying tax, you must be grateful to the country it's provided you a job where you can pay tax, many do not have job. Don't say I'm paying tax, look at the people who are not coming under tax pay category, look at the people who don't have job or salary. Have minimum concerns to your fellow beings, you must help your nation to bring prosperity in all the beings.

What do I have to do? Many things are pending in my life, how can I relax? Our life is meant to be incomplete; no one ever completed his life. To know more; please read my other blog: Life is meant to be incomplete, don’t try to complete it..

Story of School Van Driver:
In the year 2014 I was travelling from Chitradurga to Bengaluru, it happened one school van driver was sitting next to me in a bus. 

He started explaining his richness and satisfaction in life; he was earning Rs.4500 [INR] per month, spending on house rent Rs.1500 and grocery and other expenses Rs.1000, he has 2 children, for them he spends Rs.1000 per month on school fees. Still he is saving Rs.1000 per month. Sometimes he gets Saturday and Sunday Over time (OT) jobs from school, that day school pays Rs.300 extra, most of the months he earns Rs. 600 or 900 from OT jobs. 

He was expressing great joy, great satisfaction and celebrations of life. That time I was an employee of Worlds #4 Ranked MNC! It was giving great payments to all the employees. It's almost 10 to 20 times greater than the school van driver’s earnings. But unfortunately, I never noticed a single confident and most satisfied face in that MNC?! In fact, I was listening to a lot of dissatisfactions, insecurity and poverty stories from my colleagues and co-workers.

Sacrifice requires richness in heart, and the mind never lets you feel calm, because the mind's job is to make you live in fear, if you listen to your heart, your mind loses its influence, so those who are always slaves to mind will live in fear. But once you start listening to your heart, all your fears disappear, peace and tranquillity dwell in you.

A story of street sales Lady:
When I was standing on a street in Bangalore, evening time an old man and woman were beginning in a street. One of the street Banana sales lady given a fruits (of 8 to 10) to the old begging pair. I was surprised for a moment, if I had been asked by the same beggars, I would have paid for one banana.

Now tell me, who is rich? If you have the wealth to donate, you need to have richness in heart. I was zero in front of that street sales lady. It is said that mind does not allow you to donate/renunciation, but the heart allows. Sacrifice requires richness in heart.

If we examine the above story and comparisons, we can confirm that this statement is true: Poverty is a state of mind.

Don't be too selfish, when you die you are remembered as a selfish person. Just give some donation to the country, your memories will be registered differently in people's mind.

I know most of you are donating and helping others, please promote and publish your donations, this is the only way to bring down the greediness and selfishness and bring up the service and sacrifice in humanity.

     Being selfless is not dared to die, it's dared to help other’s lives before you die.


Author: GCV (Vishnuvardhana GC)


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Author Disclaimer:

I’m not a robot to be constant, consistent and complete, I’m a normal human and my blog will be contradictory like director give multiple movies have different opinions on the same subject or different subjects. I flow like a river, I really don’t look for sand, rock, trees, house, and so on. Intention is helping as many as possible before reaching the ocean. I strongly recommend to consult expert’s advice to follow and adopt any methods. The intent of the author is only to offer information of a general nature to help you in your quest for emotional and spiritual well-being.