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Tuesday, 16 June 2020

Achievers Secret

Achievers Secret

All are having only 24 hours of time in a day, why some are getting success and others are not?

There is a thin line difference in time investment and looking things. If you understand that, you will be part of the achievers group. Please read this article till the end to know the secret of it.

Since childhood we have known one thing that is; hard work brings success. It's not true, only work will not bring success. There are other factors involved.

To cook one curry! You need vegetables. You can't call vegetables itself as a curry. It requires spices, grains, chilly, coriander, curry leaves, salt, water, fire and so on. Now consider hard work in place of vegetables, salt in place of time management, self-discipline in place of chilly, water in place of communication, curry leaves in place of innovation, and spices in place of fire and so on.

If you cook curry without salt or chilly or any one main ingredient, it may not be 100%. It will satisfy your hunger and may not be delicious or healthy or complete. Similarly doing your work alone wouldn't bring success to you. Curry without curry leaves may not give that fragrance or attraction. To get success in any field, he/she must be an all-rounder.

You may have feelings like; I'm poor in communication or other things, but I'm very good at working. Is that enough to get success? No, you must work on the areas to improve where you are weak at.

Sachin Tendulkar served decades in cricket not because he is a best batsman. He served as a bowler, fielder, captain, and many roles. In fact, he brought victory to Indian cricket team by his best bowling and fielding’s also. You may say I'm not a Sachin Tendulkar, he is lucky. Remember, luck will never come and help you, it comes after your victory.

How will your problems help you?

Let me give my own examples. In my childhood I was a very shy person and used to be afraid to speak with others and strangers. Now I'm giving motivational sessions to the masses. During my studies I was very weak in computer programming language and used to mug up programs. Now I am able to build framework and suggest solutions or algorithms to the software products.

After my studies, I was struggling to get the job in software industry. Now I'm helping 100s of students to get job in IT/Corporate industry. I was suffering from frequent health issues like, ulcers, throat infection, cough and so on, now I am became health coach, helping many and cured chronic illnesses. I started business and failed heavily, now I'm doing business mentor job. I got many personal and professional issues in my life, now I become a life coach.

Why I have mentioned those many things about me, just to let you know, once upon a time; I was poor/weak in many areas. Now I have become a master in those areas. Reason: instead of thinking about my problems, I focused only on solutions and considered every problem as an opportunity and learning experience.

All my weaknesses or problems helped me to grow bigger and wiser. Every problem and disturbance made me put lots of efforts into learning and understanding more in that field. Now, my attitude towards problems is different. I welcome them with red carpet and with full heart, those are the only options for us to enhance our capacity, knowledge, and strength in our life.

How to become a master on one subject?

You have great potential to acquire any new skill or knowledge, this requires your planned efforts. Here is what Swami Vivekananda said about it: Take up one idea. Make that one idea your life – think of it, dream of it, live on that idea. Let the brain, muscles, nerves, every part of your body, be full of that idea, and just leave every other idea alone. This is a way to success.

If you are following the above guidelines as suggested; you can be a master on the subject which you want to be.

How to invest time in a meaningful way?

Above is the pictorial representation of the Circle of control and Circle of concerns. Choice is yours, in choosing which circle to ignore. If you invest a few hours every day in watching TV and other things which are in the outer circle, it directly affects your inner circle development. So, invest most of your time on the inner circle than the outer circle. Circle of concerns are not in your control, if you spend thinking or speaking 3 to 4 hours every day about “Circle of concerns” it simply wastes your time. If you invest the same 3 to 4 hours on “Circle of control” it takes you to the next level in your chosen field.

What is self-ignorance? In my opinion it is ignoring the inner circle and thinking or investing time on the outer circle. Be conscious of your time investment.

Author: GCV (Vishnuvardhana GC)

Kannada Blogger

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I’m not a robot to be constant, consistent and complete, I’m a normal human and my blog will be contradictory like director give multiple movies have different opinions on the same subject or different subjects. I flow like a river, I really don’t look for sand, rock, trees, house, and so on. Intention is helping as many as possible before reaching the ocean. I strongly recommend to consult expert’s advice to follow and adopt any methods. The intent of the author is only to offer information of a general nature to help you in your quest for emotional and spiritual well-being.

Sunday, 22 December 2019

Power of GOAL

Power of GOAL

Unfortunately many people live life with no specific goals, whereas some people have goals but not specific. Let's see what is advantages of having specific goal?

Assume you are a skilled shooter and have bow and arrow in your hands. I will ask you to shoot. Where you will shoot? You can't shoot as I have not given any target/goal. Similarly having skills wouldn't help you, unless you have specific goal or targets set.

Goal without specification looks like this, you have bow and arrow and you are shooting at East side. What is the use of shooting towards East side when there is no right target set?

Goal should be like this: In the forest, once tiger decided to catch one specific deer (in group the group of deer) and runs towards that, if on the way any other deer comes closer to it, it will just ignore and move towards the targeted one, it's ready to run additional kilometers to catch the deer, and never compromises from the target and its goal.

Here is one of the Harvard Business school research:

In 1979 Harvard asked one specific question to MBA students. "Have you clearly written goals of your future and prepared any plans to achieve them?"

Only 3% students had written goals and had plans. 13% students had goals but not written. Other 84% had not set any goals and they were very much interested to enjoy holidays after academics.

After 10 years in 1989, researchers surveyed the same students. 13% who had goals and not written on papers were doing ordinary jobs, and earning two times greater than 84%. Whereas 3% who had clearly written goals were earning 10 times greater than the 97%

Above research clearly explains that one should always have clear and specific goals, not only goals, they have to write down them on a paper.

Let me give my own example, I decided to get a job in 2 months. I marked the end date in calendar and started looking at it and working towards it. I got the job before reaching end date or deadline. It’s not my only story, all of you look back and see, in your life; most of the achievements you have achieved when you set specific goal and target dates to it.

Why my goals is not becoming a reality?

Answer is you might be having goals, those goals may not be clear or specific, and you have not written on paper or you have doubt on your set goal or you are not working towards to achieve them.

Remember, one should have believable goals. You can't have a goal which you yourself can't believe in it. Example: I want to become a Prime Minister or President of the country. It's impossible because you set that goal but your core inner feelings says that it's not possible by you. Having these unbelievable goals and not having any goals are almost same.

Steps to set goals and achieve:

Have possible, believable and achievable goals.
Once you set goals, start doing research to achieving them, prepare plan, analyze about goal requirements and acquire skill set for that and work on those areas.
Once your goal requirements are clear, start working on them. Assume if your goal requires 10 different things you need to be master on, prioritize 10 things and work on one at a time. If one of requirement is too big? Break them into pieces and apply divide and conquer rule.
Identify and eliminate what negative actions or thought are blocking you to achieve your goal.
Stop blaming others, take all the responsibilities on your shoulders.
Forgive all the people who disturbed you in the past, invest the same energy towards your goals.
Believe that there is a solution for every problem and assume nothing stops you to achieve your goal.
Have good relationships with every member of your family and work environments.
Assume you have no limitations and have infinite energy to achieve your goals.
Set goals with target dates. For bigger goals, split and set the target dates and deadlines to achieve them.
Measure your goal and it's achievement like sports score board by tracking with percentage of accomplishment.
Have courage and believe that you have all capabilities to achieve your goal.
Question yourself who is preventing or what is preventing your goal achievement, find the preventing reasons and work towards to fix them.
Make learning is a habit, daily invest some dedicated time to learn on your subjects.
Set time to train, set time to perform and achieve your goals.
Practice reputedly and perform brilliantly.

[Reference Book: Goals. By-Brian Tracy]

Power of achieving goal using power of subconscious mind:

Education, Experience and Eligibility does not matter, only GOAL matters! If you want to achieve something, set believable goal and write down on the paper, and work towards it.

Each of us have about 60,000 thoughts on an average day. By writing out your desires and goals on a piece of paper, you send a red flag to your subconscious mind that these thoughts are far more important that the remaining 59,999 other ones. Your mind will then start to seek out all opportunities to realize your destiny like a guided missile. It is really a very scientific process. Most of us are simply not aware of it. [Reference Book: The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari. By Robin S. Sharma]

Universe has everything, one who achieved is the one who have GOALS. In your city, check your neighbors or strangers whoever is settled in 30X40 house had GOALS of having 30X40 house, and who settled in 60X40 house had goals of having 60X40 house, similarly villas, and mansions and so on.

Author: GCV (Vishnuvardhana GC)

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Thursday, 27 December 2018

Who can help you?

Who can help you?

Who can help you?

Parents, friends, colleagues, social networks, relatives?

Whats-app, Facebook, LinkedIn, Instagram, Twitter, YouTube, Google?

God, Evil, Planets, Stones, Numerology, Astrology?

Nobody and Nothing can help you, including God!

I'm very clear in my statement. If you look at your life and achievements, all happened because of you only. If you think it’s because of others, those achievements will not stay longer with you. Of course nothing stays longer, everything is inevitable.

Many people believe that, if I get in touch with that person or this person, I may get some favours from them, this is a height of stupidity, in fact these thoughts come out of fear or driven by fear.

If you look at any achievements and great leaders in the world, they are the creators of their success.

If you think God can help you? No, you are wrong! Here is what Swami Vivekananda said in one of his teachings:

Let people say whatever they like, stick to your own convictions, and rest assured, the world will be at your feet. They say, ‘Have faith in this fellow or that fellow’, but I say, ‘Have faith in yourself first’, that’s the way. Have faith in yourself – all power is within you – be conscious and bring it out. Say, ‘I can do everything.’ ‘Even the poison of a snake is powerless if you can firmly deny it.’

Be free; hope for nothing from anyone. I am sure if you look back upon your lives you will find that you were always vainly trying to get help from others which never came. All the help that has come was from within yourselves.

Ask Sachin Tendulkar, who made you to take the Bharatratna award. Nobody, in fact no one can give that. What happened in his case, Government of India made law changes and included sports section and presented him a Bharatratna award.

Who helped A P J Abdul Kalam to reach such a height in professional and political life. Nobody! he is the creator of his success, may be many tried to pull him down, by cast, religion, and so on. He is a Diamond, it's impossible to prove him as a stone, so he reached heights with his own efforts.

Responsible person will get responsibilities.

If you don't believe in yourself, how others can believe in you. This applies to all success stories of life: Marriage, Friendship, Relationships, Professional, Economical, and Social life.

Have the greater belief and trust in yourself! That will unfold all universal secrets. This will happen in a magical way. Remember, once you start believing, start accepting every good and bad with same respect (because those are happening with some purpose), noting can stop you.

Father, Mother, Children, Friends, Relatives, Spouse, God, and Evils. No one can help you. If you have something to give, they stay with you. If you have nothing, no one stays with you. This does not mean that; it’s only material or money. Just a pure love and kindness can bring you many things in your life. Again, all these people can't help you, you are the one who can create or destroy your life.

Who spoiled your life?

It’s you, no one can do. Now a days we commonly see people say as below:

For Success and Achievements: this is all my hard work, this is my intelligence, this is all my effort, this is all because of me and so on.

For Failure and Loss: this is because of this or that person, this is done by others, this is by God, this is by Evil and so on.

When success comes, they say its me, for the failure they say it’s by others.

What to do, how to get success in life?

Your mind is a greatest weapon, it's like a knife. You can use it to cut vegetables or kill others or kill yourself. Use your mind consciously, be alert, be aware and be meditative. You will see greatest power in you. Every human has infinite potential, it’s like a blind person having diamond in his hand, for him it's just like a stone. Similarly, you too… you are not blind, but you have closed your eyes. You have forgotten the skills to open your eyes.

As per Tao teaching, one should live life in this way: 50% your efforts, 50% give to God or Tao, this means other 50% is taken care by the universe, that is driven by the force of your belief system, but it looks different than your expected results. Many times, you get some unwanted results, consider them as Tao/God driven things. Universe has great algorithms running and it control and activates every atom in the universe. Based on your beliefs and efforts you make universe to work for you. Don't be the slave to the universe, be the master to the universe by increasing your consciousness.

Faith, faith, faith in ourselves, faith, faith in God – this is the secret of greatness. If you have faith in all the three hundred and thirty millions of your mythological gods, and in all the gods which foreigners have now and again introduced into your midst, and still have no faith in yourselves, there is no salvation for you. – Swami Vivekananda.

Don’t wait for someone or something, start working or thinking on your dreams or goals, have faith in yourself, that brings reality. Because; You are the creator of your destiny.

Feeding your destiny... https://youtu.be/qwjhaXPm_qA

Author: GCV (Vishnuvardhana GC)

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Sunday, 27 May 2018

Bless your enemies

Bless your enemies

In 9 different ways, your enemies helped for your growth and success. So treat your enemies as God sent Angels (women) or Mangels (men). Many times you ignore your loved ones, their suggestions and their ideas as well. So, God will create or introduce some enemies to align you with your life's purpose, because enemies are the right people to trigger and ignite a fire in you.

How your enemies help you for your success and growth?!

1. They are watching your mistake and help to keep you in right path.

Many times there is a possibility that you do mistakes and correct them quickly, you become more ALERT and watch your actions, since you know that your enemies are watching you. So they are the root cause for your PERFECTION.

2. They insult you, this indirectly triggers to use your full potential.

If you are surrounded by people who are pricing you, sooner or later you become biggest fool or loser. Because you always think you are great, you put little or no effort to learn new things; you ruin your carrier and life. Whereas enemies are not like that, they are the one who find faults in every action of yours and in every situation trying to insult you for one or the other reason. This makes you to use your full POTENTIAL.

History has demonstrated that the most notable winners usually encountered heartbreaking obstacles before they triumphed. They won because they refused to become discouraged by their defeats. – B.C. Forbes.

3. They gossip bad things on you, to check and increase your tolerance level.

Usually when you are two steps ahead of your enemies, they start gossiping about you. Every person has some level of tolerance; your enemies increase your tolerance level, by gossiping bad things about you. Your height of TOLERANCE defines your success.

When You Fly High, People Will Throw Stones At You. Don’t Look Down. Just Fly Higher So The Stones Won’t Reach You. - Chetan Bhagat

4. They create obstacles to strengthen your skills and energy.

Here are the ways one can become stronger:

When you do physical exercise, your body becomes stronger.
When you do meditation, your mind becomes stronger.
When you get problems and obstacles, you enhance your SKILLS and energy. Enemies are the one who strengthen your skill and energy by doing this favor to you - keep on creating more obstacles in your way.

5. They backstab you to increase your consciousness into 360 degrees.

Usually human focuses 90 degrees i.e. only the front view. These lovely enemies try from back side; to trap you, to drag you, to pull you down.

The backstabbers are introduced by your enemies, they look like friends and act like friends. Let them continue their way of doing, don't reveal to them who they are. Reason; you may possibly lose backstabbers and their help.

What you need to do to overcome with backstabbing is… you need to start focusing 360 degrees. Your enemies are the one who make you more AWARE.

6. They miss guide and disturb you to increase your concentration and focus on your goals.

Enemies always try disturbing you; their idea is to prevent you to walk towards your goals. When they disturb, you become more and more CONSCIOUS and you keep more focus and attention towards your goals.

7. They try creating fear in you to increase your courageousness.

This is one great gift of your enemies, it’s like this; when you get virus, your body create antivirus to fight against it. Human’s immunity is built based on the attacks of antibodies. Similarly when they start fearing you, you find the ways to be courageous and fight back. If you look at success stories, most of the cases; successful people are COURAGEOUS people.

8. They dedicate body, mind and money, to your benefits and growth.

Your character is built by your enemies; they are the one, continuously watching every good and bad action of you. They keep you in AWAKEN state. They spend their part of life to make you successful, even some times; your level of growth depends on your enemies dedication.

No one can invest this level of dedication and time for your success. Because they spend their precious time, money, health, and so on, to make you SUCCESSFUL.

9. Enemies act like a life guards:

You know, your friends know, your relatives know who are your enemies, so anything happens to you (natural or intentional), most possibly your enemies are the first suspect. It’s a world known fact and in most of the cases it's proved. So they pray God to keep you in good condition. Sometimes they guard you too, reason: if a person gets an issue, first blame goes to enemies, all their stories and acts get exposed. Hence they don't take that risk. So they are your real well wishers.

May be that's why we have saying; “Known enemies are better than unknown friends”.

Be grateful to your enemies, as Santh Kabir said “Build a temple in front of your house for your enemies; they are the one cleaning you, without using soap or shampoo”.

Have stronger enemies to become stronger, have big enemies to grow bigger. It's a good idea to have “Enemies Day” like ‘Friendship Day’. Reason; many great successes and life changing events happen through your enemies. So, it’s good to have Enemies Day, it helps you to show some gratitude towards your beloved enemies.

Coming back to blog…Now you understand about why some strange things happen in your life? To know more facts and results on this subject please watch the below videos:

When God Closes a Door

Bless Your Enemies - Joel Osteen

Author: GCV (Vishnuvardhana GC)

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