Bless your enemies
In 9 different ways, your
enemies helped for your growth and success. So treat your enemies as God sent Angels
(women) or Mangels (men). Many times you ignore your loved ones, their
suggestions and their ideas as well. So, God will create or introduce some
enemies to align you with your life's purpose, because enemies are the right
people to trigger and ignite a fire in you.
How your enemies help you
for your success and growth?!
1. They are watching your
mistake and help to keep you in right path.
Many times there is a
possibility that you do mistakes and correct them quickly, you
become more ALERT and watch your actions, since you know that your enemies are
watching you. So they are the root cause for your PERFECTION.
2. They insult you, this
indirectly triggers to use your full potential.
If you are surrounded by
people who are pricing you, sooner or later you become biggest fool or loser.
Because you always think you are great, you put little or no effort to learn
new things; you ruin your carrier and life. Whereas enemies are not like that,
they are the one who find faults in every action of yours and in every
situation trying to insult you for one or the other reason. This makes you to
use your full POTENTIAL.
History has demonstrated
that the most notable winners usually encountered heartbreaking obstacles
before they triumphed. They won because they refused to become discouraged by
their defeats. – B.C. Forbes.
3. They gossip bad things
on you, to check and increase your tolerance level.
Usually when you are two
steps ahead of your enemies, they start gossiping about you. Every person has
some level of tolerance; your enemies increase your tolerance level, by
gossiping bad things about you. Your height of TOLERANCE defines your success.
When You Fly High, People
Will Throw Stones At You. Don’t Look Down. Just Fly Higher So The Stones Won’t
Reach You. - Chetan Bhagat
4. They create obstacles to
strengthen your skills and energy.
Here are the ways one can
become stronger:
- When you do physical exercise, your body becomes
stronger.
- When you do meditation, your mind becomes stronger.
- When you get problems and obstacles, you enhance your
SKILLS and energy. Enemies are the one who strengthen your skill and
energy by doing this favor to you - keep on creating more obstacles in
your way.
5. They backstab you to
increase your consciousness into 360 degrees.
Usually human focuses 90
degrees i.e. only the front view. These lovely enemies try from back side; to
trap you, to drag you, to pull you down.
The backstabbers are
introduced by your enemies, they look like friends and act like friends. Let
them continue their way of doing, don't reveal to them who they are. Reason; you
may possibly lose backstabbers and their help.
What you need to do to
overcome with backstabbing is… you need to start focusing 360 degrees. Your
enemies are the one who make you more AWARE.
6. They miss guide and
disturb you to increase your concentration and focus on your goals.
Enemies always try
disturbing you; their idea is to prevent you to walk towards your goals. When
they disturb, you become more and more CONSCIOUS and you keep more focus and
attention towards your goals.
7. They try creating fear
in you to increase your courageousness.
This is one great gift of
your enemies, it’s like this; when you get virus, your body create antivirus to
fight against it. Human’s immunity is built based on the attacks of antibodies.
Similarly when they start fearing you, you find the ways to be courageous and
fight back. If you look at success stories, most of the cases; successful
people are COURAGEOUS people.
8. They dedicate body, mind
and money, to your benefits and growth.
Your character is built by
your enemies; they are the one, continuously watching every good and bad action
of you. They keep you in AWAKEN state. They spend their part of life to make
you successful, even some times; your level of growth depends on your enemies
dedication.
No one can invest this
level of dedication and time for your success. Because they spend their
precious time, money, health, and so on, to make you SUCCESSFUL.
9. Enemies act like a life guards:
You know, your friends
know, your relatives know who are your enemies, so anything happens to you (natural
or intentional), most possibly your enemies are the first suspect. It’s a world
known fact and in most of the cases it's proved. So they pray God to keep you
in good condition. Sometimes they guard you too, reason: if a person gets an
issue, first blame goes to enemies, all their stories and acts get exposed.
Hence they don't take that risk. So they are your real well wishers.
May be that's why we have
saying; “Known enemies are better than unknown friends”.
Be grateful to your
enemies, as Santh Kabir said “Build a temple in front of your house for your
enemies; they are the one cleaning you, without using soap or shampoo”.
Have stronger enemies to
become stronger, have big enemies to grow bigger. It's a good idea to have “Enemies
Day” like ‘Friendship Day’. Reason; many great successes and life changing
events happen through your enemies. So, it’s good to have Enemies Day, it helps
you to show some gratitude towards your beloved enemies.
Coming back to blog…Now you understand about why some strange
things happen in your life? To know more facts and results on this subject
please watch the below videos:
When God Closes a Door
Author: GCV (Vishnuvardhana GC)
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