Who can help you?
Who can help you?
Parents, friends, colleagues, social networks, relatives?
Whats-app, Facebook, LinkedIn, Instagram, Twitter,
YouTube, Google?
God, Evil, Planets, Stones, Numerology, Astrology?
Nobody and
Nothing can help you, including God!
I'm very clear in my statement. If you look at your
life and achievements, all happened because of you only. If you think it’s
because of others, those achievements will not stay longer with you. Of course
nothing stays longer, everything is inevitable.
Many people believe that, if I get in touch with
that person or this person, I may get some favours from them, this is a height
of stupidity, in fact these thoughts come out of fear or driven by fear.
If you look at any achievements and great leaders
in the world, they are the creators of their success.
If you think God can help you? No, you are wrong!
Here is what Swami Vivekananda said in
one of his teachings:
Let
people say whatever they like, stick to your own convictions, and rest assured,
the world will be at your feet. They say, ‘Have faith in this fellow or that
fellow’, but I say, ‘Have faith in yourself first’, that’s the way. Have faith
in yourself – all power is within you – be conscious and bring it out. Say, ‘I
can do everything.’ ‘Even the poison of a snake is powerless if you can firmly
deny it.’
Be
free; hope for nothing from anyone. I am sure if you look back upon your lives
you will find that you were always vainly trying to get help from others which
never came. All the help that has come was from within yourselves.
Ask Sachin Tendulkar, who made you to take the Bharatratna
award. Nobody, in fact no one can give that. What happened in his case,
Government of India made law changes and included sports section and presented
him a Bharatratna award.
Who helped A P J Abdul Kalam to reach such a height
in professional and political life. Nobody! he is the creator of his success,
may be many tried to pull him down, by cast, religion, and so on. He is a
Diamond, it's impossible to prove him as a stone, so he reached heights with
his own efforts.
Responsible person will get responsibilities.
If you don't believe in yourself, how others can
believe in you. This applies to all success stories of life: Marriage,
Friendship, Relationships, Professional, Economical, and Social life.
Have the greater belief and trust in yourself! That
will unfold all universal secrets. This will happen in a magical way. Remember,
once you start believing, start accepting every good and bad with same respect (because
those are happening with some purpose), noting can stop you.
Father, Mother, Children, Friends, Relatives, Spouse,
God, and Evils. No one can help you. If you have something to give, they stay
with you. If you have nothing, no one stays with you. This does not mean that;
it’s only material or money. Just a pure love and kindness can bring you many things
in your life. Again, all these people can't help you, you are the one who can create
or destroy your life.
Who spoiled
your life?
It’s you, no one can do. Now a days we commonly see
people say as below:
For Success and Achievements: this
is all my hard work, this is my intelligence, this is all my effort, this is all
because of me and so on.
For Failure and Loss: this is
because of this or that person, this is done by others, this is by God, this is
by Evil and so on.
When success comes, they say its me, for the
failure they say it’s by others.
What to do,
how to get success in life?
Your mind is a greatest weapon, it's like a knife.
You can use it to cut vegetables or kill others or kill yourself. Use your mind
consciously, be alert, be aware and be meditative. You will see greatest power
in you. Every human has infinite potential, it’s like a blind person having
diamond in his hand, for him it's just like a stone. Similarly, you too… you
are not blind, but you have closed your eyes. You have forgotten the skills to
open your eyes.
As per Tao teaching, one should live life in this
way: 50% your efforts, 50% give to God or Tao, this means other 50% is taken
care by the universe, that is driven by the force of your belief system, but it
looks different than your expected results. Many times, you get some unwanted
results, consider them as Tao/God driven things. Universe has great algorithms
running and it control and activates every atom in the universe. Based on your
beliefs and efforts you make universe to work for you. Don't be the slave to
the universe, be the master to the universe by increasing your consciousness.
Faith, faith,
faith in ourselves, faith, faith in God – this is the secret of greatness. If
you have faith in all the three hundred and thirty millions of your
mythological gods, and in all the gods which foreigners have now and again
introduced into your midst, and still have no faith in yourselves, there is no
salvation for you. – Swami Vivekananda.
Don’t wait for someone or something, start working or thinking on your dreams or goals, have faith in yourself, that brings reality. Because; You are the creator of your destiny.
Feeding your destiny... https://youtu.be/qwjhaXPm_qA
Feeding your destiny... https://youtu.be/qwjhaXPm_qA
Author: GCV (Vishnuvardhana GC)
Kereya neeranu Kerege chelli
Author Disclaimer:
I’m not a robot to be constant, consistent and complete, I’m a normal human and my blog will be contradictory like director give multiple movies have different opinions on the same subject or different subjects. I flow like a river, I really don’t look for sand, rock, trees, house, and so on. Intention is helping as many as possible before reaching the ocean. I strongly recommend to consult expert’s advice to follow and adopt any methods. The intent of the author is only to offer information of a general nature to help you in your quest for emotional and spiritual well-being.