More you love More you Suffer
It's universal fact like everyone knows poison kill. There is a quote
on love: "Love is a sweet poison".
Yes, everyone knows that love gives misery. Again, they assume my love
is pure and it wouldn't.
Some people breakup with one person and try with others. By assuming
other person's love brings eternal happiness. Changing lover is just changing
brand in poison bottle. Content or components are same, maybe it comes with
different fragrance.
This is called as materialistic love. If you are attached to any
materials, more you attached, more you suffer.
Material are in two classes:
- Your Parents, your kids, your relatives, your lover, your friends, your neighborhood, and so on.
- Your property, your position, your car, your mobile, your favorite food and drinks, your favorite places and so on.
Let me explain one by one, more you attached to your parents or kids,
more they make you suffer. More you attached to your relatives, more they make you
suffer in later days.
If you take lover, if you love more, definitely you suffer more,
deeper you go, greater you suffer. Similarly, it applies to all the classes of
people.
Same way other class of love also gives you all the suffering, example
assume you are attached to your mobile phone, you believe that is your luckiest
mobile, you believe that is your strength. The moment you lost that mobile phone,
your suffering starts. Similarly, for the properties. People building or buying
their love home by investing decades of their earnings, because of natural
disasters or some legal issues, if they lose, they reach the heights in
suffering, for some people it's even hard to recover from suffering.
Love is very dangerous thing, if you are interested in materialistic
love. The deeper you love, greater you suffer.
You may question; is love is so bad? It's not bad, but it will be (excess
of anything is poison). Example: take the food you eat, it supplies energy to
your body, you become healthy and happy. So, it considered as food is good for
health. Same good food if you eat more than you need, it becomes bad.
People are boozing/drinking alcohol by thinking to get some extra
happiness. Next day they're suffer with hangover. More you drink, more hangover pain you get and health issue in later days.
Similarly, every material love, makes you cry, more you enjoy, more
you suffer in later days. This is universal rules. Everyone must undergo with
no exceptions.
Even if you are mad at saving any birds/animals/mankind or any such
things, this is another kind of stupidity. To know why? Please watch this
video: OSHO: I Am Not
Interested in Saving Anybody
Question is whom do I love? If you invest your love on non-material
things, that is eternal, it gives no misery.
That's the love Jesus Christ thought, unfortunately this is misguided
and people creating more suffering world with material love.
What is non-material love?
For this you must have bigger heart, if you love one person, that is
selfishness. If you love the entire world the way you love yourself, it is
unselfish love. Selfless love is non-material love.
If you treat every property like your own property, world will be more
beautiful and more lovable.
Human growth is measured by their non-material love, it's moving from
selfishness to selflessness. Jesus, Buddha, Swami Vivekananda, Gandhi has great
love (its beyond materials), that is why they are still alive.
If you are looking for happiness, joy, celebration, expand your love,
put no boundaries to it. Love with any boundary brings you a misery.
Swami Vivekananda Quotes on
Love and expansion:
Expansion is life,
contraction is death. Love your enemy, love the entire world, fill the world
with your love, unassuming expression is a symbol of the footwork.
Love someone personally
is an imprisonment. If you love everyone equally then all the desires will fall
off.
Attachment gives misery, detachment gives happiness, more you attached
more you suffer.
Being detached is not ignoring everything. Learn from Lotus: As a lotus flower is born
in water, grows in water and rises out of water to stand above
it unsoiled.
Author: GCV (Vishnuvardhana GC)
Kereya neeranu Kerege chelli
Author Disclaimer:
I’m not a robot to be constant, consistent and complete, I’m a normal human and my blog will be contradictory like director give multiple movies have different opinions on the same subject or different subjects. I flow like a river, I really don’t look for sand, rock, trees, house, and so on. Intention is helping as many as possible before reaching the ocean. I strongly recommend to consult expert’s advice to follow and adopt any methods. The intent of the author is only to offer information of a general nature to help you in your quest for emotional and spiritual well-being.
