Power of LOVE

          Power of LOVE

When you are in full of love, you become totally lightweight. Power of gravity losses its capacity.

When you are making love with your partner, you both feel very lightweight. You jump and fly against the gravity, and that goes as easy as like a feather flying in air.

Ask people who play football or cricket, sometimes they fly in air in such a way that they themselves can't imagine it’s possible. It happened because of full involvement and love in the game they play.

When you are playing games you love and you are interested, you jump into the sky and you fly like a feather.

When you are in deep love and traveling, distance, duration, and feel is very short, light and joyful. Same distance, duration and feel becomes heavy, long and painful when you are not in love or lack of love.

Power of Love:

1. When you are in love with someone/something you eat less, still you don't feel hungry.

2. When you are doing work you love, you don't feel hungry and tired.

3. When you are in love with someone, you don't recognize how time is passing.

4. When you are doing something creative or loving your job, you don't recognize how time is passing.

5. When you are in love, most of the happenings in the world either go unnoticed by you or looks okay to you.

6. When you are in love, you become very courageous and you feel nothing is bigger than LOVE.

7. Love has no religion, no rules, no differentiation, it just happens.

8. Love happens by itself, it's impossible to make someone to love something or someone.

9. Love makes things beautiful, foods tasteful, and places peaceful.

10. Love is a language, it helps to connect hearts and nature.

11. Love is a source of courage, which can fight or withstand against the world.

12. Love is blind, it blinds the mind (blocks logical thinking and business thinking mind), and heart takes full in charge of it.

13. Love has no age, no time, no distance, it can happen in any age, at any time and with any distance, with anything or anyone.

14. Love is a dream and has capacity to make many dream to reality.

Being in love with someone, something and someway is the best way to keep yourself happy and healthy.

Most of the people are suffering because  of lack of love, so they don't like love, because they don't want someone to see with love, which they don't have.

Lack of love is a source of many psychological, physiological and criminal issues.

There are some proofs, that love even can extend the death. I have heard of it and many of you too might have heard as well, recently my close relatives grandfather expired. He had been hospitalized and doctors confirmed  that he can't live longer and  suggested for getting him discharged from hospital, but he was alive till his younger son came and saw/spoke to him, there are many real stories that have been proved, love has capacity to postpone the death.

Watch children play, they run, jump, dance and so on, they do this restlessly, they don’t know what is rest, even they forget to drink water and eat the food. But they don't get tired, they show great energy and their play is like feather movements under the fan/air blows. How this is possible? It's possible with love! They are in full of love with what they are doing. Whereas adults, they don't do anything, by sitting at one place or doing nothing they get tired and feel heavy, because they are with lack of love.

Love can make graveyard as a beautiful garden. If you are in lack of love, beautiful garden looks like a graveyard.

Jesus Christ and Satya Sai Baba realized the power of love, their work mainly focused on Love and nothing else.

If you are looking to enhance your will power and energy love, check where you are in the above table, if you are above the scale of 200 (Courage) your will power and energy levels are positive, most of the happenings in your life will be peaceful and joyful. If you are running any of the negative feelings like; shame, guilt, apathy, grief, fear, desire, anger, and pride, you will possibly experience more suffering and more troubles in life. To reduce negative energy or bring positive energy level greater than scale of 200, I recommend you to read the book: “The Magic“ By-Rhonda Byrne, practice the suggestions which are suggested in the book, that will help you to gain the higher energy levels.

We all need to learn and expand our love, beyond one person or one thing, like children. Loving everything and everyone kills all your desires/boredom and makes your life more beautiful than ever. Don't love only sun raise or sun sets, try loving sun in whole day. Similarly love everything you eat, smell, touch, and see. Try not to differentiate as this is good, that is bad. All the differentiation come from stored memories, mind, and belief system. If you start seeing things with no mind, you have less possibilities to hate many things in this world.

When you love the entire universe, tell me what can disturb you. Nothing can disturb the person, who is in love with everything and everyone and who likes and accepts universe’s actions and screenplays.

In love, biggest hurts looks very small, in hate or lack of love smallest hurt look big.

All boredom, all disinterest and all hate is causing just because; lack of love, if you are in love time passes in such a way; days, months, years, passes like a seconds. Children don’t get boredom only adults, because; adult are suffering from lack of love and lack of curiosity, that is the main reason they experience boredom and disinterest.

When you go to the restaurant to eat a food you love, you don’t mind to wait. When you are standing in a queue for movie ticket to watch your favorite stars movie, when you are waiting for a person you love, you are OK to wait for minutes or hours based on your love and its deepness/involvement. Similarly when you are driving in a road or using stairs if someone is troubling your way or waiting for a person you don’t like, in these situations; you don’t like delay of few seconds or waiting.

How to bring that back love:

• Stop doing things you think as important and serious, relax and stay calm. Stop all comparisons which make you feel jealous, angry or anxiety.
• Just start focusing on smallest happening in your surroundings; cloud movements, trees, birds, and insects, tap water flow, and so on. Watch closely and see there is no tension in them. They all are just cool, calm and normal.
• Stop criticizing, instead of that, understand the situation by getting into their shoes.
• Understand and accept, in this world all are unique in nature. Nothing is made for you, only machines can be possibly be made for someone or something, not the human beings.
• Realize that no one ever escaped from problems; Sri Rama, Sri Krishna, Buddha, Jesus, Mohammad, and so on. All must undergo the situations of life.
• Like day and night, good and bad comes and goes in life, so you must accept both.
• Try seeing beauty in everything you see, develop curiosity, and develop interest in nature and its happenings.
• See how wonderful this universe functions: with same sand, same water and  same climate, each plant is capable to produce different things; groundnut contains oil in seeds, sugar cane produces sugar, jasmine produces fragrance, flower plants produces different colour flowers, cotton plants produces cotton, and so on. Using same sand and water, if you try; you can’t produce/include - oil, sugar, fragrance, colour, cotton and so on. But nature has capacity to bring wonders.
• Spend time with nature, play with kids, sand and water
• Stop thinking about Money, Power and Position they kill all your love and bring restlessness in to your life.
• Spend time with parents, friends and relatives. Visit some new places.
• Help strangers, Love someone with no reason, and try loving the person you hate.

Love has capacity to increase your will power, being in bliss and love gives you stronger will power. If all things are going against your will and nothing is happening in your way is a sign that you are suffering from lack of love and happiness.

Author: GCV (Vishnuvardhana GC)

• Kannada Blogger

Kereya neeranu Kerege chelli

Author Disclaimer:

I’m not a robot to be constant, consistent and complete, I’m a normal human and my blog will be contradictory like director give multiple movies have different opinions on the same subject or different subjects. I flow like a river, I really don’t look for sand, rock, trees, house, and so on. Intention is helping as many as possible before reaching the ocean. I strongly recommend to consult expert’s advice to follow and adopt any methods. The intent of the author is only to offer information of a general nature to help you in your quest for emotional and spiritual well-being.  

Purpose of Life

Purpose of Life

In this world you desire money, power, prestige, etc. then you realize the whole thing is just rubbish. Even If you get, you are defected. If you don't get, you are defected.

Life is beautiful and joyful to the people who just play in life, Same life is stressful, tension, suffering for the people who consider life as a game. Hindus have called it a Leela, (a play) it’s not a game, because game has some purpose, a result to be attained, victory to be achieved, the opponent has to be conquered, that is why game become serious. Grownup’s play games, Children only play. Life is a Leela, it’s a play.  The moment you are ready to play you are enlightened.

I have seen fear, suffering, incompleteness, in the eyes of billionaires. If you are not confident, joyful, and happy in life, why all the struggle? When will that time come, to be joyful and to celebrate life?

When you have no job, you are dying to get one, after getting that, you are dying to achieve something, after an achievement, you are dying for promotion and salary hike, after getting them, you set bigger targets and struggle to reach there.

Where is celebration in life, where is peace in life, what is the purpose of your life. Anything you get, again you become poor and poorer than earlier.

I have seen more poverty in the people who have worked decades in USA and Europe, now they are in India, they are more unsecured or poor when compared to the people who are doing daily labor in India.

Let me share my surroundings experience of life: there are few people who are backward casts and poor, and there are few richest people.

Both Rich and Poor are living their life. Both Rich and Poor undergoing with all the phases of life, like: Failure, Success, Suffering, Happiness, Joy, Sad, Cry, Fear and So on.

Here is the main difference:

Poor/illiterate are living in huts, Rich/educated are living in villas, both are eating, sleeping, working, both are married, both have kids, both will die.

  

Rich/educated are struggling a lot to get good education for their kids, later jobs and later marriage and so on. Their life is full of struggle and stress.

Poor/illiterate they don't even think about anything, they grow with nature and become adult and get married, have kids and life goes on.

Rich/educated take lots of pressure, stress and struggle and die.

Poor/illiterate they live relaxed life, enjoy, celebrate and die.

Sudha Murthy (wife of N. R. Narayana Murthy)  gave birth to her children in Govt hospital only, now people working in their organization / IT / Corporate are running to Cloud nine / Multi specialty hospitals to get the labor. In Life most of the things are predefined, nothing can save you, nothing can destroy you. It is fear that is making you to think a lot and suffer/struggle.

What is the use of becoming educated and rich, if you don't know the purpose of life? You don’t know how to live life? The purpose of life is celebration, living fullest of life.  Like Trees, like River, like any other creatures on Earth.

One to enjoy their life, they should learn to own less. More you own, more of your life spent on securing and maintaining those assets.

Example: if you have watch, you get unnecessary load to your free hand. You started caring about watch glass, watch cover, protecting from water and dust, servicing watch, changing battery, and so on. Part of your life, you are spending, just for your watch. Also, sometimes you compare with others watch and suffer.

Similarly, look for the things which you own. How much of life is going on securing and serving of the things you own.

I have never seen any pressurized cat, look at the cat, it's always relaxing and enjoying life. As a human being you don't know how to enjoy life. What is the use of living…?

Life has to be multidimensional. Only then it has meaning. Try not to make your life one dimensional. Somebody becomes an engineer, and then he thinks all is finished, he becomes identified with being an engineer. Then his whole life, he is just an engineer... There were millions of things for him to do but he moves only on one track. A single dimension. He gets bored, is fed up, is tired, and weary. He still goes on dragging. Waits only for death.

What meaning can there be?

Have more interests in life. Don't be always a businessman; sometimes play too. Don't be just a doctor or an engineer, or a headmaster, or a professor - be as many things as possible! Play cards, play the violin, sing a song, be an amateur photographer, a poet...Find as many things as possible in life, and then you will have richness. And meaning is a by-product of richness.

What so ever that life gives you accept with deep gratitude, grace happens to you. Life is a purpose less play, play of infinite forces of the universe, beautiful if you don’t have an achiever’s mind, ugly if you have an ambition to become something, be something, to do something. ...Relax, forget the future completely, only this moment exists and this moment is eternity, and only this life is all. Celebrate every moment in life.

Here is an eye-opening story:

Alexander was said while he was in India, met a great Master (Sage). Master asked; if you are in a desert and thirsty and I have a full bottle of water, how much you will be ready to pay for it? Alexander said I will pay half of my empire in such a situation. But Master said I will not sell, until you pay me the full empire. If you are willing to pay half, that is an indication enough customer is going thirstier and will be paying full empire. Alexander agreed… perhaps I will give the whole empire! And the Master laughed, and he said than what you are doing? Wasting your whole life for a bottle of water? Are you stupid or something? This is the way our corporate people not living life by running behind money and power, later they are spending all their earnings to the hospital or children recovery (because of bad parenting).

Last but not least, whatever may be your life’s purpose (which you defined), Don’t be too selfish, help others and serve others. Those are the only thing which makes you happy in your last days of life (when you’re in death bed). You remember: Not the things you owned, not your properties, not your achievement, not your medals or certificates.

You remember only few things: how you helped, how you respected, how you valued, how you cooperated, how you truly enjoyed your life.

Life has no purpose and No goals! For more details, click on below links...

Source: Most of the blog content is from Osho teachings.

• Have no goals no purpose in life Osho
• How to Always Know What to Do - Sadhguru - Spiritual Life
• OSHO: Selling Bliss
• Osho Book Creativity

Author: GCV (Vishnuvardhana GC)

• Kannada Blogger

Kereya neeranu Kerege chelli

Author Disclaimer:

I’m not a robot to be constant, consistent and complete, I’m a normal human and my blog will be contradictory like director give multiple movies have different opinions on the same subject or different subjects. I flow like a river, I really don’t look for sand, rock, trees, house, and so on. Intention is helping as many as possible before reaching the ocean. I strongly recommend to consult expert’s advice to follow and adopt any methods. The intent of the author is only to offer information of a general nature to help you in your quest for emotional and spiritual well-being. 

Life is meant to be incomplete, don’t try to complete it..

Life is meant to be incomplete, don’t try to complete it..

Many of you might be trying to live a life complete, keep in mind you cannot!

Our life on earth is very short and we are here to play our role, is there any movie or any dramas which is directed and shown complete? Nothing we have like that.

Just see the God’s creation, even its not complete as you expected, if that is complete, you and me should not exists.

Everybody having dreams, to achieve. You too have some, what you do? You struggle a lot, to achieve them, once you achieve them? You think and have another dream, again your struggle starts. Where is rest? Don’t try to live life restlessly, by intending to achieve something next. This “next” is never ending process and even in your last breath you feel something to be done or something to do, it’s not possible to live a complete life.

Take an examples of great mystic being: Jesus, Buddha, Mohammad and Lao Tzu, all their life ended incomplete (in terms of their dreams).

Take an example of great leader from the history: Alexander, Ashoka and Akbar all their life ended incomplete.

Take an examples of your family or relative: all their life ended incomplete.

Life is meant to be incomplete, don’t try to complete it! if you start school you start thinking to score good % that’s complete. Again its starts as getting good degree or job. Again it starts to earn some amount of money or some position. Again you started thinking your kids or others life to be complete. It’s so funny that you are thinking about kids and others life, still you don’t know what will happen in your life.

Let me tell you a narration which is given by Bannanje Govindacharya; we human being are like ants on the elephant, we all are travelling toward East and thinking that we will be going towards East side, what is funny you know? Elephant is travelling toward West!

Don’t try to formulate so much to the life, learn to live your life as it comes, most of the disappointments, angry, anxiety, stress, tension, you are undergo.. just because you are trying to complete something. I’m not saying you should not try to complete. I’m just saying that complete or in-completion should not be the measure of your life or life’s happiness or satisfaction.

When you co-relate your achievement of completion to the life’s happiness, many things you lose in your life; let’s examine few:

1.         Beauty of earth/nature you see
2.     Taste of food you eat
3.        Building good relationships and friendships

See, you see the nature and its gifts, when seeing you are occupied with many completing projects; by thinking on those things, you forget to see the great beauty of the nature or mother earth.

                                       

You are eating real delicious food, by thinking on some completions or by watching TV or by talking with others. You forget to enjoy the real taste of food you eat.

You are talking to family, relations or friends, by thinking on some completions, you will not give your 100% involvement.

Like above mentions, there are several things are in your life, because of pre-occupation or pressure of completing something, you will be missing to pay 100% attention on other things which are really important to the life.

Don’t worry life is not as expected; it’s not a tested computer program to perform as expected. Many major unexpected things are piled up in your life to come, be ready to take them with the right spirit.

Let me give you one narration which had happened in Bengaluru, with Govt order there are several houses has been demolished, many people lost their house and money. You know why Govt destroyed, reason; those sites are Govt sites, by producing bogus documents, those are sold to the innocent people. Many people put their hard earned money to buy and build the houses. With the Govt order all have lost their site and houses. In television I saw so much of crying, so much of shouting, anxiety, disappointments, so on.

Why this level of tearing and pain? Reason; we all are living with our Ego’s and completion of life in our mind.

Before building or buying they have announced that to all their friends and relatives, we have purchased our own land or house, now what they need to tell to them? And also they all lost their dream home, with that, they all thought as completion of one achievement, of course it’s not a small achievement. Ignorance of Govt and People, it’s gone. What next?

Let me tell you the similar situation also happens in nature this you too can also see, only if you are connected with the nature. When you started to build your house. To build house you need to buy site, assume that site is occupied or dependent of many insects, mammals, birds and ants. Assume there are several ant families build their winter home, to protect their babies and eggs, along with the food.  They have accumulated enough food and so on.

What happened next morning; as per your request, contractor or constructor sent JCB or Earth mover machines and started digging ground for the basement, many ant lose their life, many lose their home.

Since we can’t understand ant’s language, we can’t see their tearing or pain. Still there are survived ants they go to next site or area and build new house, and they don’t get suicide. Only in humans we see more suicides, reason; all are trying to live life completely, if something goes wrong, they can’t digest it, they give their lives.

Make sure you will never ever possible to live life complete, only possibility is you can live satisfied life.

To live satisfied life, need to learn life lessons by the nature or some book.  In my childhood my mother used tell me one of the Indian ancient proverb: Learn life by walking around the country or by reading Kosha.

Here waking around the country does not mean that, take some cab or flight round and comeback. You literally need to walk, study, experience, different placed, people, nature, with 100% presence, focus and involvement.

Swami Vivekananda quote matches perfectly and says that: Humans are living literature learn by studying them. Hope you got the point, when you see the world, from the poorest to richest people, all are living incomplete life, why hurry to complete it, be calm, cool, and enjoy the life the way it comes.

As above said other way of learning life is reading Kosha, Shiva Purana, Bhagavata, Bhagavad Gita, Tripiṭaka, Agam Sutras, Guru Granth Sahib, Bible, Quran, Tao Te Ching, So on and there are many more religious and life learning readings are available, here my point is not promoting any religion or rule, because life has no rules, every individual is not same, my point is everyone need to realize what life is?! Sometimes you need to come out of technical or skill reading, read the some books that guides the life.

Once you realize what life is! You started living your life with full of happiness, every minute gives some kind of joy to you.

All suffer or struggles comes only when you desperate to complete or achieve something;

Come out of completion, start to live life incomplete, only thing possible to achieve completion is; self-realization or enlightenment. Again don’t desperately try for it, enlightenment is not a book you can read and take exam, maturity of life is the qualification to get enlightened (again it’s not on age basis). Once you reach or close to this enlightenment state; you will not struggle to complete something, it does not mean that you stop working, you work, you complete many things coming in your way, only difference is.. your life happiness or joy is not depends on completing. Reason; you will get to know; how to enjoy every moment of life, either it may complete or incomplete.

Anyone looking for self-realization;  follow the self-realized people and their guidelines, now a days getting enlightened guru’s is easy; Google, YouTube had enough source, only thing how much time you have to invest on it. Reason; many people in this world are so busy in completing something. Yes it’s true Guru’s speeches are not like pub dance or rock music, but one thing I assure is, if you have patience and get connected with Guru’s teachings, you get a greater kick than the pub or rock music gives.

One easy way is: Live life like a little baby, baby never cares about to complete something, it just plays and not worry to complete or win it [game has wining an losing, play is just a play]. When mind and idea of game comes in it, that create all nonsense.

Remember one thing: Don’t try to complete everything, many things in your life are incomplete, that’s how the life has designed. Don’t try to fight with designer (God), go with the designer (God) to see and enjoy the design and beauty of it.

Author: GCV (Vishnuvardhana GC)

• Kannada Blogger

Author Disclaimer:

I’m not a robot to be constant, consistent and complete, I’m a normal human and my blog will be contradictory like director give multiple movies have different opinions on the same subject or different subjects. I flow like a river, I really don’t look for sand, rock, trees, house, and so on. Intention is helping as many as possible before reaching the ocean. I strongly recommend to consult expert’s advice to follow and adopt any methods. The intent of the author is only to offer information of a general nature to help you in your quest for emotional and spiritual well-being.

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